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my 11 year old son has just started dating. his girlfriend is his friends ex. any advice?
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Old 07-22-2010, 12:55 AM
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Default my 11 year old son has just started dating. his girlfriend is his friends ex. any advice?

when I say "dating" they are really just hanging out. 11 year old boys cannot get anyone pregnant! Nothing happening in that dept just yet...

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Old 07-26-2010, 12:55 AM
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Yeah... DON'T LET 11 YEAR OLD DATE MORON!!!!!!!!!!!
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Old 07-28-2010, 12:55 AM
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a little young there mom.
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Old 07-29-2010, 12:55 AM
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That he shouldn't date. That is way too young.
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Old 08-03-2010, 12:55 AM
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He shouldn't do that he could ruin his friendship,ask him is his friend or the girl more important,he needs to fine someone else,if she didn't workout with his friend chances r they won't workout with him if he and his friend r alike.good luck
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Old 08-07-2010, 12:55 AM
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I think this is far too young for your son to be dating. What if he gets the girlfriend pregnant? Who will support the baby? It costs a lot of money.
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Old 08-08-2010, 12:55 AM
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Yeah I agree with Joe C. Your son should not be dating anyone.
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Old 08-12-2010, 12:55 AM
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No advice needed yet- he's only 11. The friend will likely not care (because he is 11.) When he gets older, I would worry about a situation like this, he could get beat up.
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Old 08-15-2010, 12:55 AM
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Sorry - no way should an 11 year old be dating.
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Old 08-19-2010, 12:55 AM
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my nephew is 11 and I'm not gonna lie - baby boy is fly as hell ha ha. hes had girlfriend after girlfriend. i dint think her 11 yr old son is gonna get anyone pregnant just yet Lil.
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Old 08-22-2010, 12:55 AM
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OK the YOUNGEST your kid should start "dating" is 13 CZ then he has a higher maturity level and is more likely to have "real" relationship. at 13 it is appropriate to hold hands,hug,and kiss. if you think he is going any farther than a peck on the cheek....... then he needs a long talk about the whole relationship thing. oh and tell him that when it is appropriate for him to date ( 13 ) he should stay away from friends exes or ask what the friend thinks. OK that's all i got good luck!
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Old 08-26-2010, 12:55 AM
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Mg u take care about Ur son ,,, spend more time with him and try 2 get him in another hobbies than dating ,,,
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Old 08-29-2010, 12:55 AM
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tell him not not to take other people garbage dump
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Old 09-03-2010, 12:55 AM
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First off, boys maturing during that age may be able to sustain an erection and potentially impregnate a girl that is physically mature. Please do not delude yourself into thinking that just because he is 11, he could not possibly have an biological sexual urges or be going through puberty.

If he is just "hanging out" with his "girlfriend", certainly there should be no problem with supervised "dates" at your house. Host movie nights and join them and their friends while they "hang out".
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Old 09-07-2010, 12:55 AM
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My advice is that you do not allow him to date yet.
Allow him to be a child for a little longer.
Do not be in such a hurry for him to grow up. He will fly the nest soon enough.
I think a better age for him to be allowed to date is around 14 or 15 years of age.
I would allow him to invite this girl over to watch DVDs, play music & generally hang out but not exclusively & only when you are at home.
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Old 09-09-2010, 12:55 AM
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Dating???Uhhh.....a little young, there, eh? Even "hanging out" is gonna lead to trouble with a capital T!!! If you are actually gong for this(I have absolutely no clue why you would, other than you want to be a grandmother at an really EARLY age) than you souled tighten your seat belt and hold on, cause this is gonna be one wild ride!
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Old 09-11-2010, 12:55 AM
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confusing
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Old 09-13-2010, 12:55 AM
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Well just because someone people are dating doesn't mean that they are having sex. And yes an 11 year old can get a girl pregnant if hes started puberty. I really don't suggest you let him date because hes not smart enough, besides I really didn't start dating till i was 13 almost 14, when I started having some of my own features and girls did too.
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No 11 year old child should be allowed to "hang out" with their friends unless an adult is with them at all times! They are to young to be by them selves.
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Old 09-23-2010, 12:55 AM
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Are you crazy?

an 11 year old should still be at home playing with freaking Lego's and in bed by 830 PM period end of story.

"his girlfriend is his friends ex"

Are you kidding me???

My god what is this world coming to?

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