I have found out that my sister is secretly dating another man - SHE IS MARRIED WITH 2 GIRLS 7 + 8 YR - HELP?

have a talk with her

leave pamphlets about STD's all over the house .. on the toilet seat - under their pillows .. on the dinner table ..

oho yes and leave (wrapped & new) condoms all over the house and in their cars ... safety first ...

Tell her to stop

You should sit her down and talk to her and find out whats going on.

Id tell your sister to tell him or stop seeing the other guy for the sake of the kids.

That is just shameful!!!! Try to talk her out of it.

Don't tell her husband though, they'll just tear up her family when this may still be fixable.

well, i think the best thing for u to do is talk to her to see whats going on.. and not talk to her hubby.. cause if he finds out about it then it might cause some fights and crap Lek that... but if u like her alone then you should get 2 the chance to bring that up to her.. see if she is having any problems with her husband ya know? start asking like important question ya know ?that's Wit i think you should do..

please let her know how far it is dangerous to her personal life Cox you know that it will be seriously affecting her children, but don't bring this matter to her hubby. talk with her and try to change her. you will see good result

Personally i think u should keep Ur nose out!!

It doesn't affect Ur life whether she sleeps with Tom, Dick or Harry....she will learn the hard way.

If you feel the need to do anything then let her know that Ur aware of her little situation but dint condone it.

Whatever you do - dint tell her hubby! Why dint you let her know that you know and ask if she wants to chat about it. Maybe she will talk and maybe she wont. I dint think you will be benefiting anyone by telling your brother in law. There is a lot at stake here and probably lots of stuff that you dint know about - you know - behind closed doors in a relationship is rarely as it appears to other people. Just offer her your support, love and care and most of all your trust.

tell her you know but dint give her a hard time sounds like she isn't happy with the hubby and you dint know what goes on behind closed doors

You should not type in all caps IT is rude.
You talk with with your sister first.
Just be honest.
You may find the hubby is an abusive brute.
If you discovered sis' games then other family /friends may also.
And the two may just be swingers.
Keep it between you and sis!

talk to her about it and see what her side of the story is she might be in love or it might just be a fling

If it was me I would keep out, you will only be the bad one for telling. Keep st um and be there to pick up the pieces when the time comes.

Yeah! please mind your own business. I am not tr yin to be blunt but, your sister is a GROWN women, and KNOWS exactly what position she is setting herself up. Maybe she is having personal issues with her hubby that no one knows of, because it is NO ONES business. Look, please stay out of this mess, because Its their household you will be messing with(and you don't live in their household), you butting in will be effecting their marriage and your nieces or nephews lives also. Its her marriage and let her deal with it.

I suggest you to speak with her in private of what she is doing that is wrong, BUT! please dint put anymore kerosene to the fire that is already burning, try blowing it out with sand(by helping your sis).

My point is, its her marriage(NOT yours), its her husband(NOT yours). would you like it if anyone butts into your personal life?

Take her by the neck and tell her 2 wise-up for the children's sake.Rod.

you can tell her what you feel about it but either way your sister is going to do what she wants to do.obviously she is a grown women and only she will change her mind.

she is your sister and i believe you love her,hence you cry out.this is a delicate issue.don't speak to her husband about it.he should be the last to know...and definitely not from you.call your sister and find out if she is having any problem in her marriage.let her know your finding about her. you can then know what direction to follow in the dialogEUith her.but please be tact-full.