Men, I need some pointers on dating, so could you please help me out here?

coffeerocketabc · #1 (**permalink**) 08-04-2010, 10:52 AM

I currently have no girlfriend right now, but I'll have one before long. I've been given various ways on dating, instead, I got nothing but various and rather confusing advice. I need you to give me some pointers on how to treat her on a date. Anything would help. I could take advantage of the info you'll give me! Thanks!

coodycoo · #2 (**permalink**) 08-06-2010, 10:52 AM

play off of her

shepardman1 · #3 (**permalink**) 08-09-2010, 10:52 AM

communicate communicate communicate and then talk to her

♥Rena-san♥ · #4 (**permalink**) 08-10-2010, 10:52 AM

be yourself be sensitive and most important be honest!

Joe Bourdow · #5 (**permalink**) 08-13-2010, 10:52 AM

be yourself...
talk to her...
share experiences...
share some story...
share common hobbies...
stake your thoughts...

mommyof2 · #6 (**permalink**) 08-16-2010, 10:52 AM

First and foremost, be yourself to a certain extent. Girls can smell a phony a mile away. Second, be a gentlemen but do not fawn over her like a puppy dog. Challenge her and being sarcastic at the right moments. Try to be a little mysterious on the first date, she'll want to see you again just to get to know your deal. Finally, try to enjoy yourself.

P.S. Drinking a little bit before the date tends to take a little of the edge of. It works on my nerves.

champs élysée · #7 (**permalink**) 08-18-2010, 10:52 AM

Sure thank.
Pay for everything.
Don't talk at all.
Don't make any moves.
Don't even THINK about looking at other women.
Call her the very next morning and tell her how great she is.
And send flowers.
And chocolate. NOT diet.
And jewelry.
Once you have mastered the fine art of dating via my instructions, let me know and I might date you myself.

Hofferneck · #8 (**permalink**) 08-22-2010, 10:52 AM

i learned alto from one guy. his name is David Deangelo
put his name into a search engine and stand back.

if you have a p2p file sharing (lime wire) look him up on there its free but you should really buy some of his stuff

no lie changed my life

md_mami2005 · #9 (**permalink**) 08-27-2010, 10:52 AM

*Ahem... I think you're asking the wrong Pol, because to attract a girl, shouldn't you be asking a GIRL'S point of view, after all, you will be going out with a GIRL and NOT a guy. First off, nothing turns a girl off more than a guy with low self confidence. Second, a guy with a great sense of humor is a def. turn on. Girls like to be treated as if they were a precious gem, so, opening doors, being polite, etc. is a def. turn on. Treating a girl with respect is something we hold in high esteem. And, if you're good looking, it's a def. plus. WHATEVER you do, do NOT come off desperate. Like I said, confidence is the KEY. Anyway, good luck.

SmartMoron · #10 (**permalink**) 08-31-2010, 10:52 AM

Sounds like you need a complete, crash course on dating.

Dating is about sociology- how woman behave, psychology- how woman think, and poetry- how to talk to woman. If you start out late and haven't really catch on on all of them, nothing we tell you will work since its only a tip of the iceberg that you need to learn.

But there is hope for you yet...

There is a website which give out a comprehensive dating tips on finding the right woman (not playing around). The website is WNW.askmen.com. It helped me out of a few tight spot before and it is pretty thorough about what to do and stuff. I recommend you take a look as a reference as you go along.

Good luck~