I need Interracial dating advice for A Black Male that is new to dating other Women?

Leo · #1 (**permalink**) 12-09-2008, 07:42 PM

I have been Fighting Loving White Women all my life and I am ready to accept how much I love them. I Have never dated outside my race before and I need some advice. I am so nervous because I am not sure what to say to them. I guess I never dated outside my race before was because some of my family members didn't accept it. I had a White Female friend tell me that she thought that I only dated white girls because I am so nice. Help me out people

Kaye · #2 (**permalink**) 12-10-2008, 05:36 AM

Oh please!! Are you kidding?You obviously need to know what LOVE is before you worry about"Interracial dating"!Sweetie...you don't date a race...you date a person.Be yourself, not who you think women of a certain race want you to be.Are all black women the same?Are there certain lines that work on all black women?Do all black women like the same things in a man?.Well, surprise, women of other races are all different too.And just like there are probably a lot of black women who might not want to date you...there's no guarantee that saying XYZ is going to make women of other races attracted to you either..Be yourself, at least if you are and someone falls for you...you'll know it's YOU they are attracted to... not the person you're trying to be in order to attract"a woman of a certain race".

Lisa D · #3 (**permalink**) 12-10-2008, 08:45 AM

Women are women, it's not like you're looking to date someone from another Country with an entirely different cutlure. Just approach them the same way, if she's interested then she'll let you know, just like any other woman. Be yourself, that way you'll attract a woman who genuinely likes you for who you are.

Protik Maitra · #4 (**permalink**) 12-10-2008, 01:04 PM

Date a person for who she is! See the person within, not the outside!

Lordes D · #5 (**permalink**) 12-15-2008, 06:16 AM

people are people....it's not like white people are SO different that you have to talk to them different. if you are attracted to white women then that's you...just do the some as if you were talking to anyone else. I would think that they would reson in the same way...just be true to you and forget everyone else...cause you got to make your self happy

BabeHeart · #6 (**permalink**) 12-15-2008, 09:56 AM

There's nothing in particular you need to say, just be yourself. She'll either like that, or not. Some women will date black guys, some won't. If she doesn't appear interested, leave her be and move on. There's no special trick to it...Relax...and go with the flow. I've been involved with a black guy and he didn't have any trouble finding things to say to me. He just chatted, asked about things he knew I was interested in, and told me about himself. I still dig him, even though we haven't spent time together in months. ☺☻

some dude · #7 (**permalink**) 12-16-2008, 10:48 AM

yup , right on the money