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Why is it that much of the advice women give men in dating doesn't work?
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Old 12-09-2008, 07:48 PM
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~Being'nice'and considerate, 100% reliable, altruistic etc..~ Why do women continue to give men proven bad advice in dating? --And also get very upset at the idea of another guy inciting men to try being'jerks'or try certain tips or whatever... esp, when it seems the advice you yourselves give doesn't work? Why shouldn't guys try these other things?- why would you object to it, when it seems you are no good authority on the matter anyway?What's the deal?

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Old 12-10-2008, 01:49 PM
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It's an art, not a science. Different people like different things. Be yourself and the right girl will find you.
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Old 12-12-2008, 03:36 AM
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because women are not as smart as men
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Old 12-13-2008, 04:48 AM
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im sure that is not true but to answer your q- it is bc we are women and most of us dont date women, just bc im a women doesnt mean I know what women want,lol
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Old 12-17-2008, 01:12 AM
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They want to want a nice guy or they like to think they want a nice guy.Buut really they just want whatever it is that they want.
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Old 12-18-2008, 12:45 AM
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There are two reasons for this that I can think of. The first is the fact that all women are different and you will sometimes need personalized advice for each girl. The second is that maybe some guys might take the advice too seriously or too far and go all freaky. The best thing to do is just be yourself and try to be polite and considerate without being scary or weird.
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Old 12-24-2008, 07:44 AM
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they tell you to be nice so in the long run, when your older, you'll be perfect
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Old 12-28-2008, 03:47 PM
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because women don't know everything they want or other women want - it's hard to categories attributes they like in a guy when dating - and what do you mean by"doesn't work"? Like somebody said it's not a science and it's a lot to do with how the two people get on and just trying to tick off some boxes won't help. It's all very confusing. Personally I think the best advice is just to be yourselfHarriet
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Old 12-29-2008, 01:48 PM
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It depends on your motives I guess. If you want to date someone, get to know them, have a relationship with them then it works. If you just want to use the woman for sex maybe it won't work so well.I don't go out of my way to be'nice'I just be myself. I can't advise you to be yourself because you seem childish, selfish and ignorant. Stick to your hand rather than whining for advice.
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Old 12-30-2008, 05:35 AM
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I gather you're only interested in immature girls of low self-esteem; that's what your advisers don't realize; they seem to be operating under the assumption that you're a human being.Those who are human beings object to sub-humans mistreating other people.

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