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Been on three dates with this girl who I really like and although there has been no flirting I stayed at her house the other night and we shared the same bed.
I was not intending to try to have sex with her, I think it is too soon.
But anyway we ended up kissing and she stopped and said "we shouldn't be doing this".
I agreed and we stopped but minutes later we started again for a while then she said "enough" and we stopped.
Do you think that this was just because she thinks it's too soon?
Or do you think she stopped because she is not into me?
Like I said there has been no flirting that I was aware of and I had initiated the kiss sort of but there was no initial resistance to it.
If you respect her, your relationship with her may develop to a point where she wants to have sex. If you push her, she will run. She likely said stop because she thought it was going to fast.
It's the too soon thing. You were in bed while kissing, she didn't mind the kissing obviously but she saw the path it was going down and decided to stop it before it got too far for her.