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I need help, my sister is dating a black guy?
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Old 07-13-2010, 12:40 PM
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A little background, my family is a Conservative white Cuban Spanish family, very catholic as well, me and my older brother are both married and I have a first child on the way. But unfortunately, my sister has gone astray during her time at college. She is now an atheist and has had relations with a several guys, she has even smoked weed. Now don't get me wrong, having a relationship with someone you care about is OK, but she just slept around, and it makes my family look bad now that she looks like a whore and drug user. Now, I don't know if out of spite, or her stupidity, she is dating a black football player, and she is talking about engagement. Now, I know some of you may be disgusted with this situation and never talk to your sibling again, but I love her, and want to save her from a shitty life with a stupid husband who can't support her and with ugly low IQ trouble making children who won't share her beautiful Latin traits. How can I save her and bring her back to God and to a good white man? Thanks in advance.

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Old 07-17-2010, 12:40 PM
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just let her be and live her life. and Ur being really racist.
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Old 07-18-2010, 12:40 PM
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yes, no, maybe so!
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Old 07-19-2010, 12:40 PM
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Fa-ruit nuff said
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Old 07-21-2010, 12:40 PM
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in this case, it will be hard to turn her life around.
talk to her...just talk to her;.
you are sisters and will have some sort of connection.
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Old 07-23-2010, 12:40 PM
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It's a free country and, GASP, it's 2011 AD. She can marry whomsoever she wishes and I'll never interfere with her right to do so.
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Old 07-28-2010, 12:40 PM
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WoW you sound so racist let Your sister live her god damn life. She is not you and never will be at least shes having fun and not being a old lady as you are portraying. An I don't blame her Us black guys have BIG packages!
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Old 07-29-2010, 12:40 PM
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Just because she is dating a black guy doesn't mean she is going downhill. I am a mixed Cuban/ African American and where I live, things are done in crimes from all races but mostly white considering 90% of the population is white.
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Old 08-01-2010, 12:40 PM
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C'mon, what if you married a black person.. Don't be racist. If they have kids, just think THE LOVE IS THE THING THAT MATTERS NOT THEIR RACE. Thats just for if you skim mine you see that
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Old 08-06-2010, 12:40 PM
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I understand about the smoking weed thing but it has nothing to do with the color of her boyfriend's skin. You're a bigot.
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Old 08-10-2010, 12:40 PM
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So, Caucasian people are superior and African American people have "low IQ's" and "trouble making children"? Absurd.
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Old 08-11-2010, 12:40 PM
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WOW i wonder if it's a Cuban thing to be racist against black people..=(my older sister had a baby with a black guy without marrying of course..and i adore my nephew.but many member of our family kind make him less..not in front of our face of course..but guess Wat hes had another woman left my sister and now he has another baby with DAT Arther woman!!my step dad is Cuban also and he always says " Si El negro no la Cage en la Estrada la Cage en la salida." i don't consider myself racist..i would marry a black guy if i loved him as long as his educated and faithful and with good economy..but the more u and your family oppose her desires for him the more she'll want him..especially if she's young..try to present her cute guys without letting her know ure trying to hook her up..maybe she'll get interested with one of them......
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Old 08-14-2010, 12:40 PM
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grow up!
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Old 08-19-2010, 12:40 PM
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Racist!!!
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" her and with ugly low IQ trouble making children who won't share her beautiful Latin traits. "

wow, some of the ugliest AND BLACK people are actually some of the smartest people in the world.
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Old 08-25-2010, 12:40 PM
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Look, I'm French-Colombian, and I'm very annoyed with this, that girl makes us all look bad in front of all the rest. Makes us look all Latinos as whores and drug users, who want to marry black low IQ guys!. That's horrible! And what do you want for your sister? Do you want to have a retarded nephew? Who wants to be a football player or a whore procurer! NOOOOO! I would suggest you to move =) To a whiter and a more Latino city, or to make her be in touch with more EDUCATED and good societies, such as the white, and the Latino once. But don't let you sister to go that way. Teach her, never to join the inferior races NEVER!
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Did you really have to post this 3 times?

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