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Okay so Im a 17 year old senior in high school, for the past 6 months I have been dating a 16 year old sophomore. I never thought I would date a younger guy, but I felt a really strong connection with him. An we automatically clicked, every month we just got closer and he is my best friend also. We've had an amazing relationship and we love each other more than anything..
But throughout the relationship I've always had doubts about us working out. And I'm star tin to notice even tho hes always been really mature with me, were on different maturity levels. I just don't know what to do CZ i do want it to work, but I can't help the fact that I do want an older guy that can take care of me and bout ta be going to college and stuff like I am.. Instead of waiting for a guy that's gonna be in high school for another two years. But I love him and I do want to be with him.. I want so bad for him to be that guy to take care of me but there's nothing he can do about it :/
Were gonna be on Different maturity levels and I'm noticing it's already feeling that way, sometimes I feel like the man in the relationship.
Ugh I really need advice what should I do?
honestly it doesn't really matter about who takes care of who until your like 25 you know you both gotta learn 2 be independent before that. you cant rely on each other. so you should just wait it out with him and see what happen es. CZ for all you know in 7 years from now he could support you, know Wit i mean? u moving out anytime soon? is he? so who cares Lil
just go wit the flow n don't worry bout that you guys are young ha ha not like Ur 30 yrs old and hes a lowlife bum and your not, see?
If you think that it's important you both be on the same maturity level and that your love for him isn't greater than that, then yeah, you should just leave. But if you really like the guy for who he is and not what he can get you, then date him.
Even if you get that older guy, know that you're going to be on a different maturity level than he is, so then by your logic, why would he date you?
Dating a guy who's a year younger is not so bad, I've dated a couple of guys who were a year younger than me too and if you really like this guy then that shouldn't matter, you need to stop thinking about it so much, I mean it's not like you're dating a 14 year old. And about the maturity thing you're just gonna have to put up with it if you really love him just like he's gonna have to put up with you bitchiness [not saying you bitch or anything but in reality all of us women do.]
Dating a younger guy? Please help?
what should I do?
