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How to get out of a guys car on a date? Advice?
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Old 08-19-2010, 05:20 PM
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Default How to get out of a guys car on a date? Advice?

So this guy gave me a ride in his car to the movies but on the way home I screwed up and acted completely stupid, saying thanks a bunch of times then just bolting out of his car, I was so nervous! I explained to him after wards and he was totally fine with it, we really like each other and I feel like I should have kissed him or something. I'm going with him again somewhere this week again in his car, so I how should I exit when he's dropping me off at home? Should I stay in there for a few minutes and talk before getting out? I'm really not sure? It sounds crazy but I really could use some help! I just need to know what to do!

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Old 08-23-2010, 05:20 PM
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jump out of the car while it's moving.. fastest way.. not sure if it's safe, but it'll do.
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Old 08-25-2010, 05:20 PM
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wait for him to tell you goodbye ..maybe even kiss u
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Old 08-27-2010, 05:20 PM
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Talk to him about the date for a little bit, explaining your favorite parts, thank him for the date, give him a kiss and tell him goodbye/goodnight and ask him to call/text you or tell him you'll call/text him later.

Easy as pie. Good luck with your dates!!
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Old 08-31-2010, 05:20 PM
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jokingly ask if he'll walk you to the door?
he might acutely do it. my bf does.
that or sit there say thanks, lean over give him a kiss (cheek or lips) smile and then hop out wave and go to the house?
ID if that helps
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Old 09-04-2010, 05:20 PM
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Yeah, talk to him for a few minutes. Tell him you had a good time etc.
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Old 09-09-2010, 05:20 PM
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unlatch your seat belt and look at him and smile and say "walk me to the door"?
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Old 09-14-2010, 05:20 PM
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A gentleman would walk you to the door to ensure you are safe. It is old fashioned, but some times the old ways are the best ways. At the door, if you wish, you can give him a kiss, then go inside.
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Old 09-16-2010, 05:20 PM
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Kiss him and tell him some thin Ly i had a great nut i would be the same Lil Gd luck
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Old 09-20-2010, 05:20 PM
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First thing to do is relax. At the end of the day....its just a guy.....and the guy will probably be thinking the same thing.

From my experience.....when he drops you off just say you had a nice time...AGAIN Lil. That will lighten up the mood since you said that the last time. And just ask him straight up if he wants a kiss. Nearly 99.99% of guys will say yes. Theres no point in playing games. Just hit out with it and I'm sure he will go along. Next thing u know you wont even need to ask about it....
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Old 09-24-2010, 05:20 PM
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Say "thank u" & if u had a good time say "i had a good time". Do what u feel like doing, u don't want to force or fake anything. I suggest u start out with a hug & see what happens, it may lead to a kiss & it will let u know how he feels. If he tries 2 kiss u when u go in for the kiss, then he really likes u.
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Old 09-25-2010, 05:20 PM
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when he gets ready to drop u off tell him u had an amazing time and than lean in for a kiss and tell him goodnight and say ill call/text ya later that's the best way
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Old 09-28-2010, 05:20 PM
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Talk to him about your date, thank him for whatever he did, then see where it leads. If he doesn't lean over to kiss you, then just slowly and politely exit the car. Make sure not to lean over and kiss him (let him do that) or ask him on a date (that's his job too). Guys love the chase and he'll appreciate the fact that you act like a lady and not like a desperate girl. Good luck!
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Old 10-01-2010, 05:20 PM
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if you want to kiss him because you like him stick around and talk... then just lean in and kiss him. dint just kiss him because you want to thank him for the ride. if you really like him, tell him. dint jump out like the other guy said.
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Old 10-03-2010, 05:20 PM
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If you like this guy stay in the car for a few and chat. Then you can use the "line" it's getting late thank you again for a great night and end it with a hug. UNLESS you feel like you want to kiss him then just give him a little kiss on the lips. Good Luck!!!
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Old 10-06-2010, 05:20 PM
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Back in the old days, we had an old custom that solved this problem. The Gentleman would exit the car, step around to the other side, and open the door for The Lady, and in this way, The Lady would receive her cue to exit the car, and The Gentleman would be there on hand to escort her to the door and exchange goodbyes (and maybe sneak a little kiss).

When he reaches your house, turn and look him straight in the eye, and say, "Well, looks like we're here. I really had a great time tonight. Let's get together again, soon. Would you like to walk me to the door?" Then, take a minute to fumble with your purse or belongings. If he's going to try to get his goodnight kiss in the car instead of at the door, this will be his cue to make a move. Otherwise, it gives him time to hop out and run around the car to get your door.

Saying something like this also gives him a few hints that you might like to have another date, and that even though you are home, you are not too eager to part company.

Best Wishes and Good Luck!!
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Old 10-10-2010, 05:20 PM
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If you think that the guy is your boyfriend then yes, you should wait a few minutes in his car and talk. Most girls, will express how nice that date went and how you enjoy his company and he should agree when he replied. that is usually the signal to kiss. Either is initiate a kiss, but start slow and let him know that is how you want it to be: SLOW.
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Old 10-14-2010, 05:20 PM
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Exert caution when riding in cars with boys.

When he drops you off I would recommend saying that you had a fun night and then asking him to walk you to the door. Hug him at the door and if things feel right then go in for the kiss. Smile and then wish him a good night and let yourself into the house.

Moving things to the door removes the possibility of things going too far in the car.
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Old 06-17-2011, 11:53 PM
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Just kiss him and wait for him
Best of luck..............

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