I'm dating a Single Mother Need Advice?

Deanna Lea · #1 (**permalink**) 08-05-2010, 05:58 PM

I'm dating a Single Mother. At the beginning of the relationship she would call me often on the phone. Now she hardly calls me. We still date an see each other. Is this normal behavior? I'm trying not leave messages an call once in awhile deal.

My buddies at work keep telling me its because her an I didn't have sex. One time she offer it up to me in her car an I offer to get a room. I told her to follow me an she shout out that motel room is only 40 dollars an started laughing at me. When I think about it was funny. At the time it happen was missed up. I never bring that up with her. She told me on the phone that I didn't want to ruin our friendship. A few weeks later we go to the night club after wards I put my her leg on the way home an she grab my hand an made me feel up on her. Then dropped her off.

So what do you think is she just playing hard to get? Should I just call her in two weeks not talk to her. I'm not use to waiting on woman. I really want her want me more then me wanting her. There is one more question. How do ask her to be my girlfriend? I really don't want her to think I just want to date her. I want to make her my girlfriend so she will be more open to talk about things an still go out an have fun.

Robert

Gail · #2 (**permalink**) 08-08-2010, 05:58 PM

send her a letter if you know where she stays be cool say you would love to go out to watch a movie (or anything else) ask her out! nothing else for it or you'll be left wondering forever!

Treena · #3 (**permalink**) 08-12-2010, 05:58 PM

She might be waiting for you to make your move or just not interested in a serious relationship. The only way to find out is to talk to her and ask her to date you. If she's not interested she won't say yes. If she is interested and this was the moment she was waiting for then at least you didn't pass it up by being afraid to ask. Either way at least you will know what to do as far as to move on or not. Good luck.

a.tavarez · #4 (**permalink**) 08-14-2010, 05:58 PM

Mother ?? How Many Kids Does She Have !!

and I Would invite Her Over To My House and Watch a Movie in My Theater Room and Then Make Love To Her !! Attack Her !! - - in a Nice Way !!

Single Father !! One Daughter !

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jill_tomlin2000 · #5 (**permalink**) 08-18-2010, 05:58 PM

just ask her what she wants out of this relationship,is it sex or something more,she seems a bit easy I'm my opinion if shes wanting to do it in a car and not pay for a room,maybe she is used to doing guys in cars,i think you should move on and get someone with a bit more class.

taylor1624 · #6 (**permalink**) 08-22-2010, 05:58 PM

Then you need to talk with her as soon as possible. Let her know that it is not about sex at all! Let her know that you really want to be more than a friend. You want to be her boy friend and that you will be around for her and that even if you both should engage in sex, she will not be tossed out like an old pair of shoes! Seriously, talk with her. She is a single parent and is probably being very careful with her feelings and does not wish to be stepped on any further in her life. After all, she has another person to think about, it is not just her that she has to be concerned with.

shiva007 · #7 (**permalink**) 09-10-2011, 04:34 AM

just leave her because she is married.