need some dating advice...i really like this girl?

Nosx · #1 (**permalink**) 08-27-2010, 06:12 PM

Hey THC everyone in advance for helping me out!!! =)

Ok I'm a senior in high school. I met this girl earlier in the year that I like. She's really pretty, smart, and just has an amazing personality. Problem is... she's a freshman.

Im 17 turning 18 in June, and shes 14 turning 15 in February.

We both have so many things in common. We both have an interest in science. Were both part of our schools science bowl team, and science Olympiads. We'll both also be spending alto of time together because of the science projects we're going to make, we'll be going to Albany and D.C. later in the year.

Although she's a freshman, she's so mature for her age. She's definitely more mature than some of the senior girls. I'm a senior so I'm obviously mature myself. I dress really well and if I wanted to I could date a lot of other girls, thing is I'm kinda quiet and there's never been that one girl that I really like. This girl that I like now just has something special. I just want to be around her and talk to her all the time. Shes constantly on my mind.

We'll be spending a lot of time together due to all of the programs and things were in.

I also know that she DOES have a crush on me and feels the same way i do about her.

Is it OK for a senior and freshman to date? I don't want to go out with her just to have sex her, I know people are going to say that. I genuinely like her.

Wil :P · #2 (**permalink**) 08-28-2010, 06:12 PM

shh tough situation but in the long run it doesn't matter what other people will think but more how you guys feel. so screw what other people think. but even though she may seem mature, you might find as you get to know her more that shes not as mature as you think and this age barrier may come between you guys. but for now go for it!

Cheshirecat · #3 (**permalink**) 09-01-2010, 06:12 PM

LOL bro, it's okay threes no thin to be afraid of. So a couple kids think your stupid because your dating a freshman, they couldn't score a middle school er, and if your working on a project like maybe somewhere alone or away from your class, ask her out bro. Your a freak in' senior, grow some and ask this girl out, she's waiting.

cotton candy · #4 (**permalink**) 09-06-2010, 06:12 PM

dint worry all is fair in love and war. so what if she is a freshmen and your a senior love has its ways. just talk to her and let her know that you wanna have a relationship with her and it shouldn't matter what others think, its what you and her think. dint be too shy and do nothing about it because that will make her feel lead on. grab her when you have a chance we girls hate waiting for the guy to finally ask us out even when we know that there is a genuine connection