HELP:Do high school guys actually want to date/like nice girls?

ant0ni7 · #1 (**permalink**) 06-26-2010, 06:24 PM

I am a sophomore in high school. I am black,petite,thin, I have long hair, I love to draw and write stories, I don't fall into peer pressures,and I am a pretty outgoing, confident girl. I don't wear revealing clothing, but I don't cover up like a nun. I have had a few guys stare at me, but they never say/do anything unless I talk to them. Guys are nice and polite to me (smile,hold doors open and stuff.) These guys are mean to most of the other girls (even their girlfriends). When I talk to them, they seem to enjoy my conversation/company and they seem interested, but they never speak to me again unless I say anything. When I tell them about myself/ ask about their interest, they seem surprised and shocked. My school is not big on the popularity thing, but there are those groups of girls who get more attention from guys. I have a few questions:
1) Why don't these guys say anything unless I talk to them?
2)Why are they nicer to me than their girlfriends? That makes no sense.
3) Do guys in high school actually like girls like me? (Nice/good girls?)
4)These guys also complain about their girlfriends/other girls starting too much drama. Why do they continue to hang around them?
And before someone asks it: Yes, some girls DO like nice guys...

Rachael J · #2 (**permalink**) 06-27-2010, 06:24 PM

I bet they are honestly intimidated by you. This can be because u are different than the other girls so they do not know what to do with themselves. Or because u seem so confident they do not think u need a boyfriend.

I bet if u find one that is just as NICE as u are and show interest he will follow nu like a puppy. However do not even waste your time on the guys that treat their gs like dirt because eventually u will be their girl and they will treat u the same way.

Yes a guy will like u. But do not sell yourself short for any guy that will follow.

iliketwilightmorethanyou · #3 (**permalink**) 06-28-2010, 06:24 PM

1: Sometimes the girl needs to take control
2: If they are not mice to their ff you do not want to be their next ff. It will be the same way with you
3:Nice good guys like nice good girls. Mean bad guys like mean bad girls
4:More than likely it is for the attention or sex. Sorry to be blunt but you are at the age now where you should now that the guys who are not nice to the ff are not with them for their brain.

If you are the nice good girl you say you are go find you a nice good boy. You will just get hurt by these kinds of guys

sunlight · #4 (**permalink**) 07-02-2010, 06:24 PM

YESSSS, boss's do liker nice girls. they probably stay with the girls wit the drama CZ they having sex wit them.

MICHAEL D · #5 (**permalink**) 07-07-2010, 06:24 PM

Yes, guys actually do prefer Nice girls. However, in HS we are blind and stupid. We get better with age.