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Old 06-18-2010, 07:05 PM
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I feel awkward dating him..we are like the "token" couple, and everyone thinks we are cute, but I still feel like I get awkward stares from people in general. Do we look okay together? How can I get over the awkward feeling?

I AM NOT A TROLL.

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Huey: Obviously because I like him ...
Huey: When I got with him I didn't know that we were going to get stares from people which makes me feel awkward.

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Old 06-23-2010, 07:05 PM
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I think Some of those people are dumb and need to be beaten up.
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Old 06-25-2010, 07:05 PM
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If you feel so awkward then why did you accept his offer to go out in the first place?
EDIT: How can you like someone you feel awkward being with?
EDIT:If you didn't care then, don't care now! Who gives a $hit what everyone else thinks.
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Old 06-30-2010, 07:05 PM
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You guys look fine together, nothing strange about it..
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Old 07-05-2010, 07:05 PM
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we race mixing is nasty
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Old 07-08-2010, 07:05 PM
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Probably because its a bit odd when the guy is more attractive

He's hot
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Old 07-12-2010, 07:05 PM
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You get stares because no one has seen this imaginary couple. White men are not attracted to black women. Get that through your head.

BM WW are the #1 IR couple. That guy is ugly. Your actually decent for a black girl
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Old 07-13-2010, 07:05 PM
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What the heck is wrong with that??

Great picture and you're both good looking and look great together.

If you get weird looks then shame on them. Easy to say I know but WTF? This is 2011. You look great and I wish you well.

You are a lovely looking girl and to think people would look at you funny is pretty upsetting. Please ignore the idiots. The vast majority of us (and I'm 49) don't even notice co lour any more.

Good luck

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Old 07-16-2010, 07:05 PM
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Nothing wrong with that and I love your smiley eyes ugh I'm jealous I wish my eyes were that smiley
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Old 07-18-2010, 07:05 PM
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You guys look beautiful together! I think maybe you just haven't gotten out of that stage of being worried over what other people think of you, which is the likely cause of this awkward feeling you have. I think that if you just grow more comfortable with him and more comfortable in the relationship you'll realize that the people staring are just jealous of seeing such a beautiful, happy looking couple (:
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Old 07-20-2010, 07:05 PM
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That's what happens when two people look completely different from each other, you get stares. Just pretend that you don't see anyone staring at you, and eventually it won't matter to you anymore. You guys look fine together in the pic.
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Old 07-24-2010, 07:05 PM
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Uz trollin
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Old 07-25-2010, 07:05 PM
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Ignore them Hun. Its understandable that you feel awkward at times, but the important thing to remember is that this is your relationship, your life so why should you allow others to make you feel weird? Let the narrow minded twerps stare. I bet they have never experienced a relationship where the co lour of your skin or your physical appearance in general has nothing to do with what you feel for another person. I think you will get over this awkwardness in time, but in the meanwhile try your best not to let other people's insecurities affect you or your partner. xx
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Old 07-29-2010, 07:05 PM
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Lol they stare because you're beautiful and he's hot as hell. Perfect couple.
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Old 07-30-2010, 07:05 PM
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I think your cute together. You have gorgeous skin.
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Old 07-31-2010, 07:05 PM
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Don't worry about other people and their stares, some people are just stupid like that. Their is nothing wrong with dating a white guy, if he treats you well and you two love each other that is all that counts.
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Old 08-02-2010, 07:05 PM
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Well, you two DO look cute together. Wish I had a girlfriend like you... But anyway;

why not? If you two feel comfortable with each other AND the "differences" (no offense), go for it. Love is love, no matter what. You shouldn't look at race, skin color, size, and/or public meaning.
Don't become influenced, but make your own influence. Let them stare; they don't know how good you have it with him. Just try to ignore it; or look them straight in their eyes to "tell" them to look away.

EDIT: minor spelling mistakes righted.
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Old 08-04-2010, 07:05 PM
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dint worry bout people foe sure
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Old 08-08-2010, 07:05 PM
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If you like him so much the awkward stare wouldn't matter. You wouldn't even notice. If you really like him you shouldn't even be asking this question. It just shows how much you are racially attached to situations. Tighten up and love your man. Who gives a day um if hes white. Nobody cares. Let them stare its only because they have eyes.
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Old 08-10-2010, 07:05 PM
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Who cares, the only thing you should be looking at is your food Lil, don't look at other people who look at you screw them

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