Dating Advice From People Who Live In A GHETTO!!!!!!!!!?

PersianGirl · #1 (**permalink**) 12-15-2008, 12:02 AM

Dating Advice From People Who Live In A GHETTO!!!!!!!!!?i'm a 15 year old girl who has just moved to a NY HOODand i really wanna start dating thereand i was wondering if ghetto guys will find this attractive and how will they ACT around me.....and how should i REACT to them/ TALK to themi am kinda still uncomfortable in my new surroundingsso this is how i look-----i'm Iranian (Persian)long wavy dark brown hairlight brown skindark brown eyesthick lips (like angelina jolie....i'm not saying this to show off)and i have a more fuller figure (hour glass shape)oh ya and i wear hiphop clothes and its not just recently i always have even though most of the girls that lived where i used to live dress preppyand my personality is confident, say what's on my mind, caring, empathetic, loving, passionate, funny, generous....that's all i can think of nowi know people are going to say guys are guys and they like girls but i want to how they would act and stuff because its a different culture and allplease don't try and be offendedand if you have nothing nice to say than please don't say anything at alland don't start talking about that i should focus school.....i have maintained straight A's since grade 8oh ya and also don't talk about them all being in gangs and stuff.......i want a thug with a heart lol

Ladie G · #2 (**permalink**) 12-15-2008, 01:42 PM

i live in the GHETTO all my life and i stll do but honey its not that big of a deal i mean just be yourself and of course guys will like you.

Blackbeard's Delight · #3 (**permalink**) 12-15-2008, 10:30 PM

Fucking right they will. I live in NY ghetto and would like to meet an older you.

Meichelle · #4 (**permalink**) 12-22-2008, 05:00 PM

First of all be yourself! If the guy is just a thug and has no goals for himself and does nothing but stay in trouble run the other way. Who cares where he lives but don't talk to a guy who has nothing on his mind and does bad things and has horrible grades.

caliente1013 · #5 (**permalink**) 12-23-2008, 11:30 AM

Guys will either like you for your body or your personality. It does not matter where you or they live.

greeneyes2kus · #6 (**permalink**) 03-31-2009, 10:40 AM

Hopefully you will meet someone that is trying to get out of the ghetto and move on to better things. Just because its the ghetto people seem to think that they have to stay there and settle. You should find someone that will accept you for who you are and all that stuff that you described should not matter. You will have no problem finding someone there, the problem is finding someone that will give you their heart. People there tend to close up to stay strong. Good Luck! I love my thug, but at some point when you grow up, you want someone that has the thug look, not a thug life.