Female Advice Please?

Well it's a long story so I will try to make it short. I was roommates with a girl. We hit it off. I kinda pushed things. She said she would try us. She then said she needed more time to be single. I found she came out of a 5 year relationship. I moved away. 6 months later we are talking a little more. I'm moving back in December and I get the feeling she is finally starting to get over her ex. Now here is the question. I Love this girl and I want a shot with her, but not sure how I should play it. Should I ask her how she feels and if she says she doesn't feel the same should I just leave. OR Should I play it cool and tell her I still have feeling for her. Let it build up and hang out more with her. I feel as if it is so hard to wait and almost feel that if she tells me now that she doesnt feel the same I need to move on. It's so hard because she is sooo confused. Any advice?

Well, I think she's not to blame cuz 5 years relationship is really long time and you can't expect her to heal from this long relation that quickly do you? really if you love her you must understand her frustration even if she is the one who broke up it's still very hard to forget and move on so I don't know how can I advise you but I think its perfectly normal that she is confused and may turn you down, if you really think you do love her so much then you will wait for her and not give up and you try to make her love you but if you think it's just waste of time and that your not that serious about her then just leave thing the way they are now. hope I helped