GIRLS: Need YOUR female advice...Guys advice too...?

polo · #1 (**permalink**) 12-15-2008, 09:20 AM

ok so i am 20 years old and i have really never had a real gf.lol. i mean ive had very small flings and"sorta"gf but not really.im kinda shy But i do know how to talk to girls and stuff so my question is- since its been like 2 years that i have been looking and ive found no one. But each time i find a girls that has very good potential, im not looking.lol...Should i not look for a while and do as the old saying goes: she will find you? or should i keep on looking...its just funny that When im truly not looking for anyone, i find a person, and when i am looking i dont. its hard not to look when i havent had a gf...so should i stop looking for awhile or keep on looking?? i mean i do have small on girls but nothing there compared to what ive found when im not looking. Advice

cyndi · #2 (**permalink**) 12-16-2008, 11:38 AM

Okay, don't look but be aware, just hang with your friends, go to the mall and stuff, public places, if you see a girl that you would like to meet smile at her. if she smiles back, like a big smile, then go talk to her, don't be lame and say cheezy pick up lines, just say"Hi my name is (name)"and conversation should start, if she is intersted

crystal s · #3 (**permalink**) 12-18-2008, 04:42 AM

well the truth is if you force love it isnt true love. so, with that in mind, its ok to look, and every one does, but just becuase you like someone doesnt mean its the right person. if and when you find some one take it casually until you decide other wise. look, but dont look to hard. thats my advice to you. the gurl will find you eventually, and if anything the worst that will happen is that your not sopposed to be with any one.