i need female advice.. please help me out =)?

zmerone · #1 (**permalink**) 12-15-2008, 10:49 AM

i am the trype of guy that finds it hard to say"no"to a beautiful girl, especialy if i like them. i find myself agreeing to anything they say and make myself look like my life revolves around them, ive realized that that is the problem that pushes girls away from me when i am atracted to them. i dont want to be that guy anymore, ive realized that alot of girls see that as a turn off.. and i want to be a turn on lol.. any advice on how to make it easier for me to just say no 2 a girl?? and how to be a better turn on?? lol

sahel578 · #2 (**permalink**) 12-17-2008, 08:57 PM

You need to build your self esteem so you keep track of yourself rather than just losing yourself around a pretty girl.Remember that a good girlfriend will value your opinion and also enjoy debating with you. It keeps the relationship fresh.

Babe · #3 (**permalink**) 12-18-2008, 09:40 AM

why is it that men cannot say no to what the society says is the perfect girl. go get counseling and then find a woman that you care about their insides insted of their outsides and that is a turn on.

Luvybuddy · #4 (**permalink**) 12-19-2008, 07:28 AM

KEEP UR HAIR PUSHED BACK... WE FIND THAT CUTE AND SEXY... stay in shape and then play it cool. nothing is worse than some eager guy who wants u and anything u say... that comes off as creepy, just breath then think b4 u say.

mattymatt39 · #5 (**permalink**) 12-30-2008, 01:41 AM

Set something up that you will put your foot down that will not change no matter what. It seems to be a pattern of behavior with you, so start small and see how you react when she tries to change your plan. If she persists maybe she is not for you, any good relationship you need time apart.

006 · #6 (**permalink**) 12-31-2008, 12:57 AM

While you're single, come up with a standard for what's reasonable to do for someone else and what's unreasonable.Stick to it when you're dating. Remember, even though you may be dating someone, you still have your own life to live.

dathialeahchico · #7 (**permalink**) 12-31-2008, 07:40 AM

you can always think about somethin else and make ur self say NO !! nicely thou but not to gentel....try it on other pplz that arent girls and u'll get the hang of it !!! GOOD LUCK !!!

latrailera2000 · #8 (**permalink**) 03-12-2009, 08:40 PM

Don't be a push over, women like a challenge ,at least the non-gold diggers do, Don't be a yes man all the time. Good luck

Van G · #9 (**permalink**) 05-29-2009, 08:20 PM

girls like when you are in control and they dont have do anything..so instead of asking a girl where you two are going to go eat dinner... you tell her where you are taking her...you need to be more manly. agreeing with her on everything means you are equivalent to one of her girl friends..You also need to send mixed signals.. dont always give the girl what they want.. for example if she says I love you to you... what do you think she expects back??? she wants to hear you tell her that you love her... instead of telling her that just kiss her... she wont realize it at the time but later when she is away from you , she will realize that you never said you loved her.You gotta play the game.