long story short, i had a friend, and for a time we were intimate and said we loved eachother, but she wouldnt date me cause shes 31 im 25, we had a BIG falling out (i called her heartless, she said she had more respect for dirt than me) and we didnt speak for over a year. I aplolgised a couple of weeks ago 2 her, and she said sorry too. I gave her a flower a week later (as part of the sorry thing) and thanked me and said"your the best", the next day i saw her walk past the store i work in smiling and waving at me, and she's done it a couple of times since then, and when i see her in the street (i live in a small town) we have nice (but very brief) chats. id like to ask her for a coffee (which before our falling out we used to have 2gether) but im worried she's just being plesant 2 me and would say no.. any advice?