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I need help with this complicated situation? NEED FEMALE ADVICE?
I like this girl and yesterday as a joke I said"have fun, let me know if there are any good looking shorties at the party haha"I was waiting for a response before I said JK and she said"ill def hit you up if I see some fly girls...the girls around here suck anyways"So later in the night I ended up going to the same party and I text her while outside"so are there any good looking fly girls at the party or are you the only one?"and she replied"im the only one... and my friend ofcourse".So I was outside and she was going home and i called out her name and she came over to me and started talking to me about how wack the party was and how wack the guys and girls were. She gave me a nice big hug and cheek kiss. When we started talking, its like my friends became invisible to me and her, I SWEAR this was the first time I ever looked this deeply into a girls eye and she was staring right back at my eyes looking up(im tall she is very short). I don't even remember what we were talking about but her eyes were so beautiful. We were both just smiling and talking, and for a good 2 minutes we were lost in that and then we exchanged cheek kisses, she went to her friends car and went home.For a while now she has been giving me mixed signal, but I think that's more than just friends. No other regular female friend has ever locked eyes like we did. Right before she left its like we both knew we were staring at each other in the eyes and my friends started saying something she was just saying"yeahhhhhhhhh"but she had like a expression on her face right around the end where basically our eyes knew and agreed that we were staring into them and we smiled. Its hard to explain the wonderful feeling I had and that her eyes were saying she approved.The comment from her is what is bugging me, I thought I would get a different reaction, she basically said she is gonna help me find a girl, which she KNOWS is not a problem with me. For a while now she has been acting jealous but today it was just anti-jealous, like she wants me to meet other women. I am so confused, whats going on?BTW as another joke/reply to the"the girls here suck anyways"i said"yeah nyc got the best looking girls""i got one in each boro and 2 on the island"and then I said"im just kidding"and she didn't reply to any of that. Also when everything was said and done my friend without me mentioning anything about liking her, he said"damn she was soooo into you"
hmm im not quite sure what she is thinking because this is told from a man's perspective but based on what you wrote, I think she used to be totally, 110% into you but now she is coming off of it and her feelings for you are dwindling. She obviously still cares about you'cause it seems like she was hurt when you jokes about having other women.here is my advice to you:-quit making jokes about other women'cause it seems like that is making her like you less-make a move (ask her out) before its too late and she is already over you.