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Need female advice on breaking up, please!?
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Old 12-16-2008, 03:24 AM
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I invited my girlfriend to move in with me two months ago - we have dated about a year. She's a wonderful person and good friend, but in my heart I know she is not the one I want to spend my life with. We're in our 30's, professional, etc. - not young kids...what would you say is the best way to talk to her about this? I am afraid of hurting her, but she may be feeling the same thing...is there a way to do this with class and dignity, or am I pretty much toast?

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Old 12-16-2008, 07:22 AM
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Pray about it. That's a tough one. I do know that she will eventually appreciate your honesty and not wasting her time as well as yours in a relationship that you don't think is going anywhere. Good luck.
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Old 12-16-2008, 07:42 AM
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you invited her to move in with you before you figured out whether or not she was"the one"?yea your pretty much toast even if you do it with respect and love ...but it is better to do it asap and not hold back anything just tell her the truth women do really react better to the truth whether you believe it or not
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Old 12-19-2008, 12:20 PM
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just sit her down and tell her that you think it would work out and that you're sorry it didn't work out. i hope i could help best of luck=)
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Old 12-23-2008, 01:28 AM
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Be a man and be honest, just tell her, if you wait it will be worst, she will hurt anyways
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Old 12-25-2008, 12:06 AM
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Well, if you do it, keep it private, and do not do it in public. Make sure you have a logical reason, and stick to it, my ex boyfriend is still changing his mind on why he dumped me. Otherwise, break it to her slowly, and have tissues on hand. Best of wishes
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Old 01-04-2009, 08:08 PM
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Moving in is a committment and you shouldnt of had her do it if you didnt have the wants to be with her. Me and my x girl signed a lease and we have to live together now. She is killing me inside because i want it to work and she doesnt. Some things you have to do I guess. Talk to her and see how she feels about it and you will have your answer.
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Talk 2 her about ur feeling's. She should understand n plus after u telling her how u feel she should let go cuz she can't have u by her side knowing dat u don't love her.
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Old 03-18-2009, 04:10 AM
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you can always talk 2 her if that dont work your pretty much toast
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Old 05-19-2009, 11:54 AM
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so after two months you got tired of her? If i were you I'd find the"one"you want first, and then break the news to her, cause to tell you the truth, there isnt really anyone special out there, just better and there will always be someone better.
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Old 05-21-2009, 03:10 AM
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You need to be honest with her, don't continue to waste both of your time. if she loves you of course she will be hurt, there is no way around that, but you must do what your heart tells you to do!! good luck!
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Old 05-25-2009, 09:28 AM
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If she's as mature as you consider her to be, you shouldn't have any problems. It is always best to tell the truth, and by doing so you're showing her how much she means to you. It is better that you tell her, even if you hurt her a little bit. If you wait, you'll hurt her more in the long run and she's regreat you for it. And you'll be unhappy and you'll hate yourself for it too!
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Old 05-25-2009, 03:48 PM
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If u sit her down and explain er'thing to her and if she's sweet and nice like u say she'll be ok. I mean of course it may hurt for a while, if she is still in love wit u. But eventually she will get over it. its better 2 go ahead and do it now instead of keeping putting on a lie and living wit her when u really don't want to. Becuz in the long run its not only hurting her but urself as well. I think she'd be a lot more calm if u do it now rather than waiting around and maybe starting to act different around her. So ur best bet is to jus sit her down and tell her u want to have a really serious,open, honest talk wit her about er'thing and where u 2 are headed in life.
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Old 05-27-2009, 08:52 PM
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Yeah your toast! lol but be honest! Why keep going on with someone when you know inside that you are going different directions in life. I would take her out to dinner and just go really slow and gentle lol. Maybe she feels the same way.I am kinda going through the same thing. Keep us posted.

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