asking a girl out without being creepy? i need female advice?

shogun · #1 (**permalink**) 12-17-2008, 06:16 PM

I work in a retail store, a customer came in 2 fridays in a row, she flirted with me alot, a month later she comes back and flirts with me some more, I didn't get her number, which I regret, I'm about to quit my job in a week, I can't get her out of my head, she works in a middle school, I could take a chance and show up at her job and ask her out, but that is so creepy and stalker like, b/c what would a college male like me be doing in a middle school, my wingmen tell me to move on, but my gut says take the chance and get closure, honestly i get a sick feeling in my stomach when i think about her.

MiMi · #2 (**permalink**) 12-17-2008, 07:50 PM

just talk to her but dont be nervous a girl wants someone brave so dont be scared.and before you walk off say id like to get to know you more maybe we could hag out sometime

Craiova · #3 (**permalink**) 12-20-2008, 08:34 PM

Walk up to her and ask her out for coffee...if you don't do this you have your whole life to regret. What's the most she can say? No? You still walk away intact but you live with knowing you gave it you best shot.

snowflake1234 · #4 (**permalink**) 01-02-2009, 08:44 PM

Don't show up at her job. Try to wait for her outside of the school, when he is out of her job. Don't forget the flowers. That wouldn't be creepy. I'd call it a nice surprise. If she says no I don't want to see you and you still show up again - yeah, that would be creepy.

blondie · #5 (**permalink**) 02-01-2009, 03:08 PM

FLATTERY! Women love to feel like they are the most important thing in a man's life. get a single rose, look her up, and tell her you would like to go out sometime.

rayzcraze · #6 (**permalink**) 03-11-2009, 01:40 AM

do not go to her workplace. you're right, that is creepy. if you see her again ask her out for sure. but if you don't, i'd go with your guys on this one and move on.

punditic_ebony_beauty · #7 (**permalink**) 03-21-2009, 03:00 PM

don't stop by her job that is really creepy. if it is meant to be then your paths will cross again. Have faith in Fate!

forme2poopon73 · #8 (**permalink**) 04-02-2009, 10:44 AM

You sound impatient and desperate. When you least expect it you will find her. Don't be a stalker....unless you can find her with out watching her from behind a bush....lolI bet you will run into her again.... Be patient

.......... · #9 (**permalink**) 05-28-2009, 03:28 PM

the only way you can meet her at the middle school where she works without it being creepy is if (1) she told you she worked there and you didnt just find it out on your own, (2) you know her name and she knows yours, and (3) she is not a student at the middle school ... good luck