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Ive been chasing this girl for along time..we dated for 2 months but i pushed her away..i made a mistake...she plays alot of games because of this..i chased her for 2 months now shes talking to me again...we had lunch 2 saturdays ago...and we talked last wed...fri...and sunday...we went 6 weeks before that where she wouldnt even answer my call......monday i emailed her asking her if she was up for lunch this week..she said her weeks really busy at least until thursday..but possibly friday..i sent her back friday could work, will have to set somthing up....and thats the last time we talked..is it to soon for me to call her and ask her if shes up for lunch friday....or should i wait for tommorow....ive been putting almost all the effort into making plans for lunch...i dont want to seem desperate...so should i call her today and ask her if shes up for lunch friday? or should i wait till tommorow? how should i go about this...
She's got you right where she wants you! So yeah..I'd leave calling her until tomorrow...just so that you don't seem deserate. And sound all casual about it too :-)
don't be too pushy.U discussed having lunch friday, if she wants to take u up on that offer, she will call u.Don't necessarily play hard to get, but don't be all over her either.
Your problem isn't the girl, it's that you're apparently incapable of making decisions without asking a bunch of total strangers on the internet. How the *&%$#! would we know how you'should'behave with her any better than YOU would?? Do we know you? Do we know her? Jeez dude, grow a pair.
I would wait until tomorrow so you don't sound to"excited"about it. Just say, hey just wondering if you have thought about Friday at all, if she says no just say OK and end the call, don't try to keep her talking try to be non chalonte (no idea how to spell that)
Perhaps she's not"playing games"- maybe she's just decided she's not interested after all.If you want to feel like you're"better than nothing", keep calling, but don't get upset when she doesn't answer promptly.I say move on and learn from this experience not to mess around with a good thing.Good luck.
you are taking this too fast if you keep on asking her stuff like that she will think you are too desperate and think you just need any old girl and don't really care. Don't think about her too much for a little while don't ask her to go out just hold conversations that interest her and before you know it she will be asking you if you want to go out with her to lunch and typing on yahoo answers on what she should do.
Wait till tomorrow. Don't focus on whether she is or is not"playing games."Let a friendship between you two become stable and let nature take it's course. Have patience man. Call tomorrow though. Good luck.
Sounds like you brushed her off and now she is brushing you off. You could always try to meet someone through the personal ads of your local paper....Have you offered to buy lunch or do you go dutch?
wait till thursday AFTER LUNCH to email, text, or call. then if she declines...lay off for at least a week...and dont mention another invite until after the full week has gone by. if she declines...then she's definitely playing games with you. you probably deserve better than the treatment you're getting...but i dont know the situation fully, so i couldnt say for sure.i just hate dating, dont you? lol
I think if you want to make plans you better have them planed out before the day before the date. Call her on the phone and see what's up. If she dis's you again, then maybe she's not all that interested. Good luck.
Well it sounds like she's playing hard to get, because she's not completely rejecting you, but she's also not completely falling for you. Just so you don't seem clingy, I'd wait till tomorrow. If she thinks that you have other things to do than just think about her, it will make you seem more desirable.
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