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Old 12-09-2008, 12:22 PM
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Ok so I got my fiance pregnant but heres the thing were only 20 and were still in college. Our college is 3 hrs away from her house and she will be dropping out at semesters end. I was wondering from a females point of view how they would feel if i stayed in school. I would visit every weekend but I dont want to drop out because i want to be able to support my family. She claims its ok but I would like some more opinoins please. what should i do??

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Old 12-09-2008, 01:15 PM
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I would secretly be pissed and resentful at you and hate you for the rest of my life. I would only stay with you because of the baby and get your money in order to sustain my life.That was a really crappy thing to do. I mean, personally, I think you're doing the right thing by staying in school, but is there ANY way your fiance can stay too? If you're 20 years old, it's only one more year before graduation. It'll be hard, but you can stick it out.
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Old 12-09-2008, 11:28 PM
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If she says it's ok, then everything's ok! Don't drop out, because if you do, you'll regret it later on in life. Visit her as much as you can, and offer to help take care of the baby. Good luck!
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Old 12-10-2008, 06:57 AM
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It might be hard for her at first, but just sit and tell her the things you said here. More than likely she will want you to finish school so you can provide a better life for your child.
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Old 12-10-2008, 08:56 AM
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visit her as much as possible. she'll be pissed some days but when the baby comes hopefully youll get to stay with her. yea dont drop out you need to support your baby. good luck!
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Old 12-11-2008, 05:06 AM
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Both of you should enroll in a community college near your place (you should get a place together) and be a family. A baby is hard work she will need your help. Especially if she is your fiance, I'm sure she will need your emotional support as well.
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Old 12-13-2008, 06:35 PM
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i would want u too...........i wouldn t want a guy who is gonna work at mcdonalds 4ever!!!!!!!! but u should consider transfering more local.....and make sure u do visit whenever possible!!!!!!!!!!
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Old 12-14-2008, 10:10 AM
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Here's the deal:The first thing you need to do is graduate. Then, buy an apartment and move in with her, if she is up to it. The last thing you need when you are pregnant is stress. The most important thing is that you to stay together in this. You are BOTH going to be the parents, and you need to pull it together to get through this. She is probably scared and nervous, and is ok with anything right now, so offer her this suggestion: Lets get our own place, get married ( you need to do this now) and have this baby, make sure she knows you will be going to college and graduating to support the child. Ask her if she is willing to go to college until the baby comes to get your fullest educations. If she isn't, let her stay at your home until your baby is here. If either of you have anymore questions, contact me athillsgirl15@yahoo.comAlso, just in case things don't work out as planned, set aside a bond for the baby. This will make a world of difference for the childs future.Good luck to both of you,Nicholle
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Old 12-14-2008, 08:48 PM
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I thimk it's okay that your going to school because like u said u wanna support your family. Maybe once the baby is older and she finds a good babysitter she can go back to school.
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Old 12-15-2008, 04:57 PM
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Why can't she go to a college near you? Why can't you two get a place together and work out your school schedules around the baby. She goes to school the times you don't have class and you go to school the times she doesn't have class. My college had a daycare in it. Maybe find a school with a daycare. I would be pissed because I had to give up school if I was her and you get to go to school like nothing happened and you were there to make the baby too.
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Old 12-16-2008, 06:48 PM
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I am just wondering why she is dropping out. Why can't she keep going also? Many woman have gone to school and had a baby. As far as you staying in school, I say that is the best thing you could do.

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