I need Female Advice...?

steve j · #1 (**permalink**) 12-18-2008, 01:19 AM

Ive been chasing this girl for along time...she plays alot of games because i kinda have a checkered past with her...we had lunch 2 saturdays ago...and we talked last wed...fri...and sunday...we went 6 weeks before that where she wouldnt even answer my call......monday i emailed her asking her if she was up for lunch this week..she said her weeks really busy at least until thursday..but possibly friday....is it to soon for me to call her and ask her if shes up for lunch friday....or should i wait for tommorow....ive been putting almost all the effort into making plans for lunch...i dont want to seem desperate...so should i call her today and ask her if shes up for lunch friday? or should i wait till tommorow? how should i go about this...

julie744527 · #2 (**permalink**) 12-23-2008, 07:23 PM

call her friday. if she plays games then this will be right up her alley. Turn the page on her.

jenny m · #3 (**permalink**) 03-17-2009, 09:40 PM

i think u should call her. i can tell u r so into her and i say go for it. if she thinks ur desperate it may hurt ur heart but it will recover and u can find the grl thats rite for u. best of luck.

Dr. Kat · #4 (**permalink**) 05-20-2009, 02:56 PM

Why are you still calling her? Why don't you drop her a cute little email that says"Give me a call if you'd like to make plans"and that's it. Give her the control and the power, which she already has anyway and leave it. You're coming off needy and desperate at this point. You're going to turn her away entirely unless you start acting aloof.Now, if she says"Ok, Tuesday", you reply with"Tuesday's bad for me. Thursday?"...meaning, DO NOT be available on the first day she offers. BE ALOOF!

beanasgaillimh · #5 (**permalink**) 05-26-2009, 03:15 PM

Don't ask her. You emailed her and asked her. Try really hard to be patient and let her come to you. Don't make it look like you're hounding her. Good luck!! xo