am i doing this all wrong? I need Female advice..?

ive been chasing this girl that i dated for 6 weeks...now where finnaly on talking terms again...i called her on monday and everything was good...than we talked on wed and friday and sunday...it is impossible to make plans with her...but when where together where both way into each other..its really wierd..i asked her to go out for coffee yesterday..but she was busy...was i wrong to send her an email this morning asking how her weekened was...and seeing if there was a good day for her to do lunch this week...how should i go about this..alls i think about is this girl 24 hours a day...and its been 3 months..it wont go away...do i need to try and forget about her...and how do you do that...i know that theres somthing there between us..but shes in that party phase of her life and i just got out of it....what do i do...am i doing things wrong?

You are not at all wrong about sending that emai. You are doing the right thing by letting her choose a good time to hang out. She may only like you as a friend though. I mean think about it, whenever you've had someone that was equally attracted to you, you didn't have to chase them that hard for that long. She is also in a different stage of her life and obviously isn't ready to come out of it. I think you should call her and ask her. If she's a little immature about confrontations though, definately send her an email and just flat out ask her,"look, i'm really into you, and I don't want to push something that may not be mutual. You're always on my mind and you have been for a long time. I have a lot of respect for you and I won't be offended if you don't feel the same way. Please email me back or give me a call so that I don't make an ass of myself! I hope you had a wonderful day."And that's it!