Help ladies: advice on lunch with female friend/acquaintance set for tomorrow?
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Help ladies: advice on lunch with female friend/acquaintance set for tomorrow?
Advice request please for the ladies? I'm having lunch with a female friend/acquaintance tomorrow after attending church services with her, which I have been attending with her multiple times. Although discussion will focus primarily on religion, I would also like to talk a little with her as well...what discussion topics would you recommend? Any advice you could provide would be very helpful!
That all depends on the type of person that she is. If she is really worldly and likes to watch the news politics is always good for a healthy conversation. If she is a fashionista then talk about new styles, scarves for men, V necks, things of that sort. If she is very intelligent then the conversation should just carry itself. Maybe start from where she works or if she is in school what she wants to do with her life. That tends to be a good jumping ground.Good luck!!!
When I'm in your situation I grab a pen a paper and write some things down to help.You can discuss:Ways of making extra moneyFamily, kids, grand-kids, ect...Favorite foodsPlaces she has visitedWhere she would like to visitShare health problems, if anyBring a jokeDon't worry it will flow.
In my experience, you can learn a great deal about a person by the kind of books they read and the kind of car they drive. These usually lead to fun conversations.For example, my favorite book is To Kill A Mockingbird by Harper Lee. That book covers the subject of racism as a bad thing, is somewhat of a legal theme, and it is on the banned books list. From that you could infer that I do not agree with racism, I may enjoy legal dramas or even be interested in law myself (which I am) and that I am somewhat outspoken.I have two cars. A white 1992 Ford F-350 4X4 7.3L Diesel with a seven-inch lift and over-sized tires. My car is a cranberry 1974 Volkswagen Super Beetle. Both are older model cars and neither is a bright, flashy color or a power color. From these you could infer that I may have an anything-he-can-do attitude (I work on my own cars) and I prefer the classics. I am reserved, not flashy, and am not terribly dominating.See how this works? You can have a friendly discussion about recent books you have read and the authors, a comment on the gas prices can bring on the car conversation. Just leave politics for a later get-together. If you two are too far on opposite sides, the discussion can get too confrontational.Hope this helps! Good luck.
Help ladies: advice on lunch with female friend/acquaintance set for tomorrow?
