Need mature female advice for mature male issue?

ONce you throw others in the mix the troubles startfantasys are just that a fantasyyou could get a dildo and perform double penetration like we do..that is as far as we take it..we love each other WAY to much to complicate thingsNOW they do have clubs that you can go watch people OR be watched..however i have no clue where they are but i know they exist!

From what I have heard, it should be left as a fantasy. Why risk harming your marriage? Hope this helps and Be well.

there are many schools of thought:a) reality is never as good as fantasyb) reality goes wrongc) she leaves you in reality for the well endowedd) try it and love itit is down to you. i know people who have pursued and enjoyed it. and some that tried it and ended up having a bad experience.if you are a both upto it, you could try being watched via webcam.there are many things to look at.

I understand that you asked for mature female answers, I do not fit that category, but I do have experience with your question. I had the same fantasy, and my wife and I roll played it, then we took it to the next level and invited a young man into our bedroom. I enjoyed sitting back and watching the action and my wife enjoyed being watched and then the attention I gave her after our friend left. We have tried this on several occasions and find it very erotic and satisfying. I believe that you have to have a honest and open communication in your marriage to make this work. Good luck.

Hi I was in a relationship like that at one time and it wasnt all easy.I did what myboyfriend wanted me to do because I was so nieve , but belive me when you bring others in in person it all different then thinking and dreaming. I tried in for him he wanted ot be with aanother woman and or threesome . Let me tell you I had to drink inorder to relax and if the love is real it hurts to watch your mate being screwed my another man or watch your partner in general . You think it's a a turn on but seriously . it caused our relationship of 2 years to end.good luck

I think the best thing is to leave this as a fantasy.It is always much more erotic that way.Once you have done it, you can't go back.There are so many variables here. Its like Russian Roulette.What if she likes him better.What if you can't look at her the same way.What if she can't get over doing that.It could ruin your marriage.I would definitely just role play and use a dildo or something.You can pretend to be the other man.Whatever just don't go there.

Depends on your level of acceptance concerning sharing her sexually.

I am friends with people who allow others into their sex lives for the purpose of playing out fantasies. There are many people who do. For my friends, it has worked out very well. But that is because both of them are able to separate sex from love. A lot of people (like 90% of most women) are not able to do this. They will start to develop feelings for the other person. Or some men will like the idea at first, but then get insanely jealous of the other guy once it actually happens.It takes a VERY mature couple with a VERY solid relationship in order for this to work. If there are any problems in your marriage, particularly issues with self esteem or trust, don't do it. But if you feel that things are solid and you both have good heads on your shoulders, then go for it.I would strongly encourage you to set some very firm boundaries, though. Such as no contact with the guy outside of your role playing. Or have one sexual act that is reserved for just the two of you. Etc.Good luck!