looking for female advice?

My girlfriend of 10 yrs told me she wasn't inlove with me anymore, she said it wouldn't work because she wants to be inlove again. we are still talking at this point and when I asked if sex was a problem she said it was always good 4,5 times a week. She has been treating me like she doesn't want to break up. When I was going to leave she wanted to have sex so I did. When we talked later that night she says she's not sure if she's doing the right thing. I'm kinda confussed..we're a couple in early 40's asking her to marry is kinda out of the question at this point. she said she didn't love me anymore..as for making her feel sexy yes I tell her and show her all the time..

Make her give you a straight answer. It sounds like she isn't sure herself, maybe she just needs a break to find out what she wants in life. Ask her what it is she doesn't like anymore, and talk about it. Maybe it can be fixed.