girls only - seeking female advice?

KG5 · #1 (**permalink**) 12-24-2008, 09:56 AM

I've known this girl for 3 yrs&we met online but never in person. We only live 15mins away from each other so its not bad...but considering I've never met her, she has said things like...- she wants to know when im working- she tells me to call her- we talk on the phone a lot, so YES she is a girl- asked me to see her at the mall- she asked me if I'd consider her my g/f[ she doesn't say that stuff anymore though, were still friends though...however im just questioning it now ]shes with a guy who she says she loves, but hes a jerk...so the thing is, i really wanna see her and its not about being shy becuz she chills with guys. Whenever shes in my area she doesn't mention about meeting up or anything...I don't wanna go there&she doesn't care when i show up.and whenever i ask her to meet me, she makes up excuses...is it time to cut her off for good?

Echo · #2 (**permalink**) 12-25-2008, 03:58 AM

Yep, time to cut her off. Internet dating doesnt work so try someone that you dont meet in cyberspace.

Allie R · #3 (**permalink**) 12-25-2008, 09:41 AM

next time you wanna hang out with her and she makes up an excuse just say"ive been trying to hang out but youve been making up excuse after excuse. is something wrong?? you can tell me"or somethin like that

mike m · #4 (**permalink**) 12-29-2008, 09:11 PM

im not a girl but u dont have to worry about cuttin her off she has already cut u off

kool_aids_star24 · #5 (**permalink**) 01-03-2009, 03:06 AM

I think that she's trying to make you jealous by being with another guy. But I would confront her and ask her about all of the excuses. But if that doesn't work then it's time to say good bye. Hope this helps!!!

Loreen B · #6 (**permalink**) 01-19-2009, 07:32 PM

maybe you should try meeting real women.

loveissweet · #7 (**permalink**) 03-15-2009, 04:30 PM

ok not trying to be mean but you need a reality check. if you've never met the chick theres a reason for it and three years omg meet someone else. or tell her about it....maybe she's scared to actually meet you b/c she doesnt know who you are idk

Basil B · #8 (**permalink**) 03-20-2009, 12:12 PM

do her

xdumbgirlx · #9 (**permalink**) 05-20-2009, 01:20 PM

umm.. it looks like shes just sayin things and not meanin it.. i doubt shes ever gonna meet u in real cuz if it was me i wouldnt want to meet a stranger in real life

fire36angel · #10 (**permalink**) 05-26-2009, 08:00 AM

cut her off ... she wouldn't be making excuses if she really wanted to see you