Waiting on a girl

About two years ago I started a new job and I met this girl and she really didn't talk to anyone, and I thought she was pretty so I started to talk to her and we hit it off well, so we started going out on dates, but we never even kissed during those dates, and it was clear (cause I told her) that I liked her and she told me she felt the same way. Talking about our history she definitely isn't prude or anything, but she told me i had to wait to be in a relationship with her (which in the past no girl ever made me wait to be her official boyfriend but what ever I liked her a lot ).

So I waited and I started getting annoyed cause I thought it was kind of ridiculous that we weren't a couple yet even thought everyone at work thought we were. Plus I turned down 3 girls who asked me out during these mouths because I really wanted to be with her. So I told her in a nice way:

"I don't think you interested me in that way, cause i believe we'd be dating by now, and the guys you dated in the past don't sound like guys who would wait. If your worried that I will not talk to you or not be your friend if you tell me you don't see me that way, don't be, I'll still be your friend. I just don't want to wait for something that's not going to come. Especially if two years go by, and you suddenly have a boy friend out of know where."

Well she got insulted that I doubted her pass boyfriends waiting for her and insisted that she had feelings for me, that Its not going to take more then 2 years, that it will happen when it happens, not to think about it.

So more time goes by, and were watching true blood, and I think "screw it go in for the kiss" I do, she rejects it. So then it becomes clear that she's not interested. She tells me something like, "you can't just plan it, we have to have a moment, blah blah blah". So we watched more TV, and I was embraced and I tried just talking about the show and forgetting about what just happen. About 4 hours go by and she asks me to walk her home, then she is walking in front of me and turns around and kisses me. I was surprised but I took it more as a pity kiss rather then her meaning it. Although every date after that she would kiss me like that every time we said good bye (and only when we were saying good bye)

So the interesting part. I kind of gave up on her after almost 2 years and just took her as a friend. Particularly because we didn't go out as much anymore, we weren't talking much, she would sometimes ignore my text or calls (which she admitted she did on purpose). Then after a week of not talking to her at all she calls me up to go out. She pays for dinner (which i always paid), she starts talking about us and if i really want to be her boyfriend. She kissing me nonstop and is flirting with me. She's talking about the future, and that she's going to get this hospital job and that i could move in with her when she get her own place. All this sweet stuff. Then like we go to my car and she basically "attacks me" wanting to have sex. I convince her to go to a hotel, which we do and we have sex 3 times. Now its been two months and in the beginning she was talking to me, then went to barely talking to me, to completely ignoring me now. I have no idea why she's ignoring me. The last convo we had we were talking about Halloween then i brought up how we haven't seen each other since we had sex, and what does she want and that's when she started to ignore me.

Well after not really talking to me for two mounths, she returned too work a week ago (she was on leave) and texted me her first day back to see if i was there. then when we were working at the same time she came up to me a few time, trying to have small talk but i was being kinda cold. then she texted me a few days later saying "i feel u think i was ignoring you, i wasen't, i just dont like texting with my touch screen (she got a new phone) so i replyed "you do ignore me, you dont talk to me anymore, if you dont like texting swith ur phone, you could call me, or write me on facebook or even just text me once in a while." and she wrote "ok" and i wrote back "look im not going to bother with someone who wount bother with me" and she replyed "ohh"...so after taht she was texting me like once or twice a day to show "look im being better". she saying she wants to hang out when shes less busy. i just don't understand why shes even bothering with me. what you said is exsacly what i think, and i brought that up to her when she was barley talking to me (which caused her to stop talking to me and not answer the question). but seriously why would she bother with me at this point