Utterly Clueless

Thanks in advance to anyone who helps me out and responds here. I know what I'm about to say sounds rather silly.

I should start by saying that I am a 17 year old guy with Asperger's Syndrome, so my social skills are often very limited.

Now, I have practically no friends on my high school's campus. It just never worked out that way. My friends all come from the club I'm in, and it's one of the best things that's ever happened to me. Of course, I can only see these friends at the club's few conventions, as most of them live dozens of miles away (I don't drive).

As I mentioned, this is the one time I can actually be normal socially, or at least as close to it as I can see myself getting. I'm always with some or another group of friends, a far cry from the rest of my time, when I'm with some or another group of nobody. They're also the only people I talk to online (though I'm not often able to).

As it so happens, this has led me to have somewhat of a fatal attraction in JSA. There are a handful of girls who are driving me differing degrees of crazy. I am attracted to them in all of the big 3 categories - physically, mentally, and emotionally. They're always in my groups of friends at these conventions, and I talk to them (individually, of course) when I can online. None of them, however, know how I feel, or if they do, they do not let on. In any event, I'm not really "close" to any girl I'm interested in.

Anyway, I have recently been considering acting on one of my crushes (just one - I'm not some kind of player). What should I do? Do I need to get "close" to her? Should I just up and go for it? What would I say? Am I pursuing a pipe dream, and I should just get out and try to reclaim my sanity?

Again, I'm sorry if this sounds stupid, as I'm positive it does. Thank you to whoever tries to help, and I'm warning in advance, I might get defensive. I often do. If anyone needs some more information, there's a lot more I could say, so just ask. I probably haven't given you the complete picture, honestly, but I don't know the best way to explain it straight-out.

Once again, I really must give advance thanks. Can't wait to get some thoughts.

well,...you never know unless you try., Maybe you could suggest an outing that you are both interested in?, Ask for help on something associated to the meetings you both attend? That way if a spark is not there your not out anything and your honor is intact.