Getting over an Ex Girlfriend.....not too easy, need some female advice?
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Getting over an Ex Girlfriend.....not too easy, need some female advice?
So I am now acknowledging the fact that I will never see my Ex Girlfriend ever again, and that nothing that I can do can change the way she feels about me. She has been with someone else and she is happy about the way things are; I haven't been and never will ever have any of those feelings reciprocated. I know that I cannot be a pest, and that includes me not sending texts even once a month! Removing the number from the phone won't be fun, but it is a necessity.I asked for females advice because men tend to completely forget about the fact that, yes, there is a human at the other end of this, and although the brute facts carry the most weight, that is not what I need! I know them all, your emotions don't speak English.I can't just go and find a rebound girl, as that would be unfair to the girl. How do I go about getting back on track with my own life, as opposed to sitting around moping?FYI, I posted a question about nagging, and promptly deleted it; it hurt a little too much.I actually do see a psychiatrist, but he has been on his yearly vacation for the last 3 weeks, and I only discovered this about my ex about 3 weeks ago. Needless to say I am sure he will have a lot of insight that will certainly shed some light on the situation. I see him in 2 weeks (ugghh)I really just wish I was honest with myself a bit more; I found myself constantly leading myself into a mode of delusional thinking, which can quickly turn any attempts at getting over someone sour.
you might not want a rebound girl but i think you need someone to take your mind off of heer.. or just start hanging out with the guys.. i just try to keep myself as occupied as possible
Find a new hobby, Join a club and find some new friends. If you're lucky enough you might find a girl you like.Thinking about her and trying to get back with her will make it worse.
You need to stop making this relationship the center of your world. It seems to be truly over, so that is just a waste of energy. Yes, this is easier said than done, but it CAN be done. Maybe it would be best to think about doing things that you enjoy, putting the focus back on you for a while (avoiding that rebound relationship headache). I feel confident that if you are able to move on, and get back into your own interests....you'll find someone new.Good luck!
It's going to take a while before you will over come your pain. But I do think that you will find someone else to cover your pain when you least expect it....
time is the only thing that will heal. you can't help the way you feel and nobody can change that for you just keep yourself busy to distract yourself and give time your right not good idea to get rebound girl thank you for not wanting to hurt anyone.
You need to focus on yourself, your work, your family, your friends, whatever and not even think about another girl. Just hang out and do what you do, see what your life is like without any romantic complications. Once some time has passed and you aren't thinking about her so much anymore, you will start to feel ready and over her. Until you know that your life is fine without her, you will still miss her. Women like confident and self-sufficient men. Become one and you will feel better about yourself and, eventually, ready for a new relationship. Good luck.
You need to focus on yourself during this time. Finding another girl right now would be disasterous for both of you. It will get easier as the days go by. I know this sounds wrong, but you have to be selfish right now in order to move on. I would suggest taking a trip with a male friend, or by yourself. Thank you and may GOD bless.
You will need time to grieve as this is a true loss for you. And you will need to move on. I don't know how recent this hurt is, but if your ex is happy, honey, be adult and be happy for her.Just don't forget as you heal that life will go on, the world will still keep on spinning, and that you too, will one day find another woman who will make you feel wonderful.Life is all about change, it's the one constant. I wish you well, and if you can't cope, find a professional therapist to help you work through the pain and anger. Because if you don't work your way through it, you will be in no shape to meet or be with ANYbody. And you want to be happy someday, right?You can't force anybody to change their view, but you can certainly work on yours. Get help, take time to grieve, then move on. Don't use it as a sham or an excuse to avoid life.Just remember: even the cutest guys and gals have gotten dumped at least once in their lives. Believe me. Life goes on.
I think you need to separate yourself from her and getting rid of things that remind you of her. I don't think you should find another girl, I think you need to heal and you haven't done that. But what I do think is focus your attention on the friends you have hang out with them do things that are fun with them. Time will heal all wounds. As someone told me, in a year you'll see that it was good your not with her, in 2 you'll would have moved on.
Well when you find yourself sitting around bein sad and thinkin about the good memories dont ... instead turn your thoughts to the bad things and bad memories.. this will be hard at first , but it will in time make you better! you will start to not want to think about her because you will get mad.. and then the most important part is you have to get back to what makes you happy! not happy when you were with her.. but what has always made you happy. maybe something you havent enjoyed for a while.. get back to the basics and dont get serious for a while.. you have to take care of you first and forget about everyone else..when you accomplish this things will start to fall into place.. good luck and stay strongok all the people sayin that you need to get everything out of your life that makes you think of her are bein completely irrational anyone who has been through a bad breakup knows this would be impossible what you need to do is make New memories for these things that do not involve her.. this is the only logical way..
Try to do away with everything that reminds you of her. Go out and keep busy. Do NOT sit in the house all of the time! Get a makeover....change you clothes into nicer ones and things like that. Believe it or not, it will help boost your feelings of self worth. Pray for the strength to get through this. Spen time with friends and family. Try to keep her out of yourmind. When she enters your mind, think of the negative things about her and none of the good times. Keep at it, and you will eventually begin to feel better about it and about yourself. I will pray for you as well. It is one of the hardest things you will have to go through. A broken heart will mend with time. Do not give up on it. The more you distance yourself from her, the better off you will be.
Fill your life with things you enjoy - and make yourself do them. Don't go out looking for anyone else, you are right that it's too soon. Just find out who you are, or who you want to be. Hang out with your friends, laugh every day. Try new things. Eventually the pain will dull. Don't try to rush, it takes time.
Getting over an Ex Girlfriend.....not too easy, need some female advice?
