As others have stated there really is no difference in the feel of it after you have it done. It just looks different so why not go out and get those sexy little undies that have a whole in it and a face on the front and I AM sure she will notice it. As for telling her well if I were her I would be happy just seeing it for the first time not telling her. It is not something you just come out with by saying"Oh, By the way I got circumsized 3 weeks ago! I hope you like it better!"I think she will like it better for the fact that going down on a man while circumsized it cleaner and so is the sex there is nothing hiding under the forskin. Just shave down there (as one other reader said) and I would say do a strip tease show for her. Bet she will notice it then too. Have fun with whatever way you do it. I am sure she will be happy!