I think she got pissed off by what I said. Was I wrong? FEMALE ADVICE PLEASE?

help · #1 (**permalink**) 12-27-2008, 08:45 PM

So there is this girl I like a lot and would love to get with and she told me once she is open to dating more than one person at a time. I don't know if she was lying or not, but this was when we first met.Since then we became a lot closer and more open with each other. I learned that she has been emotionally abused and stuff and is really shy and just really looking for someone to love her and she says she has huge trust issues and gets sorta jealous. I don't mind none of these things, I still like her a lot. It seems she trusts me a lot though.The other day though I told her my feelings on dating, and how till it becomes a full relationship, I am open to options from other girls, just as she said a few months to me how she dates more than one guy at a time.Now she is acting all weird and not responding to me. Did I screw things up? I said this because honestly, I don't think me and her were going anywhere and I decided I much rather stick around as a good friend to her than a possible boyfriend or whatever. So I thought it was cool to be so upfront and blunt about it.Should I move on now? We knew each other for 7 months.Females, what do you think happened? What can I do? What else could I have said instead?

xox_april · #2 (**permalink**) 03-05-2009, 09:40 PM

she probably told you that she was open to the idea earlier because you were.. she sounds like she wants to be your girl, not to be shared.i suppose it depends upon what you want.but its pretty clear what she wants.. a steady relationship.

tanyel1 · #3 (**permalink**) 05-26-2009, 06:44 AM

It sounds like she really likes you! She probably just said that she sees other people so she didn't have to settle as she has trust issues. So now that shes got to know you and she actually likes you - you saying this has confused her.....you should explain why you said it....and explain to her if you want to be with her cus she likes you but now shes not sure wha your thinking.