Weird dilemma between between me and this girl. ( I need female advice..)?

Joe · #1 (**permalink**) 12-29-2008, 03:58 AM

This girl at school used to have a crush on me, however, at the time I had no interest in her so I started giving her signs that I didn't like her back. Once she realized this she started acting like she didn't like me anymore (maybe she actually didn't like me anymore). But then I started having feelings for her and I started showing her affection, but she doesn't like me anymore... she thinks I'm an asshole/jerk and probably says to herself"What was I thinking!"I just want to know if there's a possibility that she could start be attracted to me again. Also what should I do? I really like her.I wish I had these feelings for her back when she had a crush on me, it would make things so much easier...

krazygurlygirl · #2 (**permalink**) 12-30-2008, 03:20 PM

Maybe you just think you're attracted to her because she doesn't want anything to do with you. Alot of young and even older men are like that...you like the chase I imagine. I bet you anything if she"liked you"again, you'd lose your interest in her....

Abby Jo · #3 (**permalink**) 05-27-2009, 04:36 PM

I think u should give up on her cuz if u were a jerk to her, nothing is gunna change her mind. Move on.