I need some female advice.......?

Mat · #1 (**permalink**) 12-13-2008, 12:06 PM

My girlfriend manages our finances and my monthly salary get paid directly into her account, she has the only atm and credit card but gives me enough to get by each week. This has worked well for the past 6 months, however, 2 weeks ago she wouldn't give me any money until I gave her my yahoo password and all the phone numbers in my mobile phone. This week she made me kneel to her when asking for some money back and told me I would have to do this to her from now on. Is this normal or is she getting a bit kinky? I am affraid what she will make me do next. Any advice?

shrtbsryders · #2 (**permalink**) 12-15-2008, 12:15 AM

ha ha your a kept bitch, and with your own money, what a loser

pink_heart18 · #3 (**permalink**) 12-16-2008, 05:02 PM

If she's serious and demanding about the kneeling thing everytime you have to get your share of your salary and it's not for a sweet moment thing, then you should try to politely explain to her that you need not put yourself so lowly just to ask for your share.

cosmic_convoy · #4 (**permalink**) 12-18-2008, 08:45 AM

time to stop the deposit and leave do you what this $hit the rest of your life(i dont care how good she is in bed)

Frustrated04 · #5 (**permalink**) 12-22-2008, 02:38 AM

You already know the answer.........I failed to see the OUR pieces of our finances on your story. I saw the MY finances piece.

mz.Tiza · #6 (**permalink**) 12-25-2008, 03:10 AM

why did you do that?? my husband and i share an account and we have our own separate accounts as well...if i were you...take the money she gives you that week and open another acct and change the direct deposit acct number.....you should be able to manage your finances on your own if youre over 21 so good luck...if you need any advice just e mail me...

m gurl · #7 (**permalink**) 12-30-2008, 02:00 AM

Stop doing that,or she'll take all your money,only do that if your married!my dad did that with his ex and he was broke when she left him!she's robbing u,so don't do that,I don't know why she's doing that!good luck

IrishBoricua · #8 (**permalink**) 01-03-2009, 11:37 PM

Man! You definitely can not be real!

jaynelu · #9 (**permalink**) 01-20-2009, 06:24 PM

I wouldn't be"afraid"of what she will do next, I would be separating everything that you have together and packing my stuff, she's gotten way out of control!!!!

reignbobrite · #10 (**permalink**) 03-17-2009, 08:24 PM

Open a new account, transfer your direct deposit, and dump that psycho!

scarface_cezar · #11 (**permalink**) 05-25-2009, 07:40 PM

Either She Is Quite Controlling And Wearing The Pants In The Relationship,Or Doing This Because She Feels You're A Pushover And She'll Always Get What She Wants When It Comes To You, Or Maybe She Doesnt Trust You When It Comes To Handling Things As Important As Finances.Not To Belittle You,But It Sounds Like Your Girlfriend Feels You Are Too Immature To Handle Such Responsibilities Than Can Affect The Both Of Your Lives.