female advice?

hulk · #1 (**permalink**) 12-14-2008, 03:40 AM

Hi. I'm 21 yrs old and I've liked this girl for a while now, she sits right next to me in one of my classes. I've only had one major relationship that lasted 4 years, so I really don't know how to go about asking a girl out. So anyway, i'm trying to get this girl. I check her out a lot during class, and she does the same to me, but i'm not sure if she's checking me out or if she's wondering what the hell i'm looking at.She seems to always be looking at my shoes, so today I put my leg up over my other leg and she was looking at it, I could see this from the corner of my eye and when i looked at her she quickly looked away. What does that mean?Anyway, Last week I worked up the courage to talk to her, and what i said was"hey, do you know when the thesis statement is due?"She said"wednesday"and I said"thanks."and that was it!! i felt so pathetic. So today i tried talking to her again, but the convo was similar to the other one. So what should i do? Can i ask her out now or no

yaddajean · #2 (**permalink**) 12-15-2008, 06:51 AM

Just let her know you are interested by like asking her if she is busy this weekend and see if maybe you two can hook up or something. See what she says.

darkest_angel0o · #3 (**permalink**) 12-16-2008, 11:45 AM

Staring at your shoe...either you have funky shoes or shes contemplating something to say to you or to make eye contact with you.Just talk to her dude. Ask her how shes doing today, and tell her that shirt looks good on her. Eventually, you'll feel comfortable enough to ask her if she wants to get something to eat or see a movie. Confidence is a turn on. So use it.Good luck

desibear · #4 (**permalink**) 12-19-2008, 06:49 AM

just ask her if she wants to go hang out or something like that.............she probably likes you!!!!!!!!!good luck!!!!

sheila · #5 (**permalink**) 01-17-2009, 07:08 PM

you know it might be a little bit too fast to ask her out. the way shes looking at you might be something that she might like you or maybe she sees something weird on you. it can be either way. so its best that you should start having a conversation with her. talk to her everything you see her in class. try to make conversation like you needed help with your homework maybe she would even say that she would be glad to help you that she might suggest that she will go to your place and study or vice versa. just make such great conversation to be able to see the signs shes gonn show you. if shes really all the time talking to you or pay attention to you then it means that she likes you. and when youre sure that she likes you then thats the time you should ask her out.

kandie w · #6 (**permalink**) 02-06-2009, 05:48 AM

Was she nice to you when you asked her the question? If so. I would take a sticky not and write on it something like this. Did you want to grab something to eat sometime? Or would you like to go out with me? Will she be able to read the bottom of your shoe? If so that is that I would do. If she is looking at your shoes then put the stick now on the bottom of your shoe, and see if she answers you. If you can see her looking at it out the corner of your eye then you should be able to see if she is reading it right. If at the end of the class, she doesn't say anything to you about it them she either didn't see it or she read it and was just ignoring it. So that is where you come in the next day with the same note, and right before class is over put it on her desk o that way you know she read it. Good luck to you. I have more ideas to but this is the one that really stuck out. God Bless, and I hope I helped you out.

a.tavarez · #7 (**permalink**) 03-03-2009, 04:10 AM

hmmm....try giving her a smile and see if she smiles back....try talking to her again..there nothing girls like more than a guy with courage..what do you have to lose..atleast you'll know if she's interested..instead of mortyfying yourself...asking yourself whether she likes you or not.

anne o · #8 (**permalink**) 03-27-2009, 01:40 PM

if you like her then ask her out,you got to have confidence in yourselfthat is the master key dear.

grams · #9 (**permalink**) 05-26-2009, 05:24 PM

talk about school work and most of be yourself.