need female advice on touchy issue?

Kathy · #1 (**permalink**) 12-14-2008, 03:18 PM

I have been playing football with my husband and his pals. they play a rough game of tackle which sometimes includes the men"accidentally"tackling the women by grabbing our boobs to tackle us. my husband says its all in good fun so to just deal with it when one of his friends does it to me. does anyone have any advice how to get these guys back? one problem is i'm only 5'4 and most of these guys are big and built

been there done that · #2 (**permalink**) 12-15-2008, 08:10 AM

'accidently'tackle them by the nuts -- or better yet,'accidently'use their nuts as a handhold to get back up. They'll get the idea.

Tr0ublez · #3 (**permalink**) 12-17-2008, 10:02 PM

UMMM YAA kick em in the nuts our boobs r just as sentive lol an i would feel soo uncomfortable if i was you no way shape or form should they be taken u down like tha screw them kick em in the nuts

phantomlimb7 · #4 (**permalink**) 12-27-2008, 12:10 PM

How about'accidentally'kicking one in the nuts as you get up from the tackle? Or stepping on a hand....

Katey · #5 (**permalink**) 12-28-2008, 05:24 PM

How about you accidentally divorce your husband? I am surprised he ok with other men groping you, and that you are ok with him feeling up other women.

Angiej1213 · #6 (**permalink**) 12-30-2008, 03:37 AM

Stop playing football or deal with the"accidental"touching. Anything you say will be unheard, and anything you do (like accidentially kicking them in the ba%$# will only make them grab more)

dgrissmer · #7 (**permalink**) 01-20-2009, 04:00 AM

I would tell them straight up that I don't like you touching my boobs even if its all in good fun. I'm sorry, I don't mean any disrespect, but I don't feel I'm being respected when you do that. Pro football players don't tackle by grabbing the chest of the runner, they tackle by grabbing their ankles, or shoulders. If you don't stop, I won't play football with you guys anymore.Just stand up for yourself. Because that's just rude. I'm surprised your husband is actually cool with it.

Olivia K · #8 (**permalink**) 04-03-2009, 06:10 AM

two words DUMP HIM! but if you don't want to then tell him that it really bothers you and how you feel about it. As for getting him back... if hes hurting your female parts, hurt his male parts if you know what i mean....

Iris J · #9 (**permalink**) 05-25-2009, 05:15 PM

hmm..well I don't know about the grabbing part. I know in tackle football there is a lot of contact. The only time they should be touching your chest is if you are a lineman-I think they are getting out of hand with the grabbing. When guys grab each other they mostly pull on the shirts, but since you have something underneath, they just go for the boobs.honestly I think they are trying to intimidate you with their very inappropriate behavior. i have played tackle football and breasts get grabbed once in a while, but not repeatidly (and I hope by accident). those guys got their minds some where other than the game.are they grabbing each others man-boobs too? probably not. don't let them sexually harrass you! i guess by that logic you might as well grab something too! of course"accidently". how about wearing a shoulder pad? you have to protect your girls!!!