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Old 12-14-2008, 05:09 PM
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My girlfriend manages our finances and my monthly salary get paid directly into her account, she has the only atm and credit card but gives me enough to get by each week. This has worked well for the past 6 months, however, 2 weeks ago she made me kneel to her when asking for some money back and told me I would have to do this to her from now on. Last week she told me I would have to do all the housework for her before she gives me anything (we don't even live together). I am afraid what she will make me do next. I would die if we ever broke up the trouble is she knows it too. Any advice?

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Old 12-15-2008, 02:06 AM
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Get on Ebay and see if you can buy some balls.
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Old 12-17-2008, 05:48 AM
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*crack*......was that a whip I just heard?...nah...couldnt have been...
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Old 12-17-2008, 08:14 PM
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wimp...Stay with the control freak, see where it get's ya'...
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Old 12-19-2008, 03:28 AM
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Get your own account and send the money there.Get your independence . . .Or stick with the submissive fantasy for as long as it's fun. Ask her if you can give her oral pleasure for your money.
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Old 12-24-2008, 06:22 AM
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Good grief buddy! What did she do to you in the first place to get you to this point? I'm a girl but I would not defend her. That's absurd. If she doesn't give you any respects, why should you respect her? take all your hard earnings back and let her know you'll be happy w/o her. No one out there worth putting your dignity down for.Good luck!
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Old 12-30-2008, 11:35 AM
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Mat. this is crazy!You need to let her know that she is supposed to be your partner not your mother. And since you don't live together why are you combining your finances anyway?
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Old 12-31-2008, 01:16 AM
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Step up and act like a man. Go to your work and stop the direct deposits, and then tell your girlfriend that you do not kneel to her. Personally if it were me I would kick her to the curb and move on.
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Old 01-06-2009, 08:26 PM
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WOW, who's wearing the pants!? You need some control too (especially over what's yours!) You don't need to beg for your own money!!!! That's just wrong&you COULDlive w/o her, I promise!!
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Old 03-29-2009, 04:56 AM
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put a stop to it now! if this keeps up, she will be fat and happy and you will be lonely and broke!!!!
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Old 05-25-2009, 08:32 AM
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OMG...dude dump her....and hey if Ebay doesnt have your balls size try Amazon.
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Old 05-28-2009, 06:45 PM
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Not a correct attitude from her. Sorry to say so - you know this deep down. If you want to have a real love relationship that works, there has to be respect between the two of you. She made a mistake and she is not showing respect to you. My advice is that you immediately redirect your salary payment to your own account. This is part of your self-respect as this is the money earned by your hard work. You deserve to manage it. If you want, you can give it all to her, but not the way this has been handled. Stay away from her for a little while to give her the space to think about her actions. Do not tolerate this type of behaviour - you do not deserve it.
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Old 05-30-2009, 01:13 AM
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Oh my God. I have heard it all. You need to get you a backbone. I personally have always hated to see a weak man. If you are not handicapped, stop letting her control your entire life and finances. As long as she knows that she can play you like this, she will continue to do it because you don't have enough backbone to stand up to her. If she really loved you she would not treat you this way. You'd better wake up and smell the coffe before its too late. Please don't die over her.
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Old 05-31-2011, 12:30 AM
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This is the healthy discussion.
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Get on Ebay and see if you can buy some balls. <br />
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