Some female advice please?

Mat · #1 (**permalink**) 12-14-2008, 07:18 PM

My girlfriend manages our finances and my monthly salary get paid directly into her account, she has the only atm and credit card but gives me enough to get by each week. This has worked well for the past 6 months, however, 2 weeks ago she made me kneel to her when asking for some money back and told me I would have to do this to her from now on. Last week she told me I would have to do all the housework for her before she gives me anything (we don't even live together). I am affraid what she will make me do next. I would die if we ever broke up the trouble is she knows it too. Any advice?See my prevoius questions for more details on the relationship

koleebear · #2 (**permalink**) 12-16-2008, 08:11 PM

grow some guts!!Seems you are pretty well pussywhipped!Time to change roles in the relationship my dearHave your check put into your own account and you meter out the money to her!

Karen T · #3 (**permalink**) 12-17-2008, 06:18 PM

You must be joking......are you that naive?

Bailey · #4 (**permalink**) 12-17-2008, 11:24 PM

Sound kind of controlling, I bet she's a wild cat in bed huh! Sorry! lol But, really she is actually abusing you. Tell her you do not deserve to be treated that way, and you work for your money too. Tell her you won't have it anymore or YOU will start making some serious decisions...

SxyPR · #5 (**permalink**) 12-22-2008, 06:27 AM

You are joking right? This is definitely a joke. It can't be serious. If you are serious, you need a spine QUICK!!! Its your money you shouldn't have to beg for nothing.

malachai · #6 (**permalink**) 12-26-2008, 04:29 AM

yea get ur paycheck direct deposited into ur own account. i would never put up with that and neither should you. and it may feel like ur gonna die but to be honest ur probably better off without her. dont put up with her crap man u can do so much better. best of luck to ya!

Fire_God_69 · #7 (**permalink**) 12-31-2008, 04:24 AM

Try growing a backbone. you're a complete loser.

nicole · #8 (**permalink**) 03-26-2009, 03:16 PM

All I can tell you is if she's making you beg for money than she's NOT worth staying with. And thats some type of abuse that you might could report to the police so you won't lose your house.

Daisie W · #9 (**permalink**) 05-28-2009, 12:51 PM

open up your own checking/savings account. have your work check direct deposit into your own account. make sure your account has a debit/credit card included. learn to do your own finances.she's controlling all the money and how much you get .. this is just not right. this is your money ... you have earned.put your foot down ... it could get worse.you'll be better off without her