Friend AdviceThe love we have for friends is one that all humans share. Although not intimately, this love can be more important than other types of love we carry. Let us assist you with any questions you have regarding your friends.
This is a close friend I've known since we were 4..She's an only child, so she's always gotten her way.. but recently, it seems like she's taking me&a few other close friends for granted.First, we had plans to meet at a beach, and she came late (3 HOURS) because she had to shower, and she kept a few other friends waiting for her because she didn't want to"go alone".Then, we had plans to go to a show, and she promised us&another group of people to go, knowing we clash. Also, she didn't even tell us about it until she realized she COULDN'T EVEN go to the show.A few days ago, after school, she ran off without telling us where she was going, and left her huge project for us to take home. There was no"thanks guys","i really appreciate it", nothing.When we wanted to talk to her about this (she promised to meet us), she DIDN'T SHOW UP, and didn't even bother to give us a call even though we waited for her for around an hour. When one of us saw her later with one of her other friends, and she didn't go up to her to apologize or even say"hi".I don't know if she's always been like this, or maybe we've let her have her way for too long. She is freakin'oblivious and doesn't notice anything wrong with what she's doing, and we don't know how to deal with her anymore..Advice please ?
Maybe something is going on at home that she doesnt want to talk about. It sounds like she's being secretive of something going on in her family or something...or maybe she just did get her way too much. Just give her some space or ask if she wants to talk about anything. People act strange when there is something else going on.
Do you think there might be a problem she's not telling you about?And really, I know how hard it is but the best thing to do is sit down and talk to her.If she's the friend you say she's been, she will listen up. If not, it might be time to move on.
DESPERATE ... friend advice needed!
