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How to give advice to a friend?
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Old 12-09-2008, 07:15 AM
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Its quite unfortunate, I know one of my close friends gets beat by her father and brother, but I don't know how to give her any advice. I've never expirenced such a thing so I figured that I wouldn't know much. Any suggestions?Peace and Love.

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Old 12-09-2008, 07:18 AM
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Report it for your friend.
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Old 12-09-2008, 07:37 AM
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Dear Peace&&Love~That is just awful. My advice for you to give to her is this:Keep the Faith, Never Let Go; because even in the darkest path there is light.
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Old 12-09-2008, 09:36 AM
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Go on websites and recommend them to her. I get beat by my sister. Next time she does it im calling kids help phone.
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Old 12-09-2008, 04:53 PM
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If you know this for sure, you need to call the police. You want to give your friend advice, tell her to call the police and report her father, if she doesn't then you need too. It needs to be reported, its needs to stop. Unless she leaves the house or calls the police to get her father away from her...the beating will never stop.
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Old 12-10-2008, 04:17 AM
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You can always make an anonymous call to child protective services, if it's that bad you should. They will go to the home and try to investigate it. Sometimes it's better to just be there for her, not trying to give her any advice, just support.
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Old 12-10-2008, 02:45 PM
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maybe you should tell her to ring child line on 0800 1111 it is free and they give u advice on how to cope with what u r facing.hope that helps
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Old 12-10-2008, 10:38 PM
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If you friend in a minor it is very important it gets reports to your local child protective services ASAP. This friend does not even have to know it was you. You can also talk tou your school councilor Good luck&be a good friend
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Old 12-11-2008, 03:09 AM
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OMG that breaks my heart. I don't know either. I guess the best thing for you to do is tell her you know what's going on and that you are there to help her. Put your arms around her and let her know you care and tell her that she doesn't deserve to be treated so badly and again that your there for her. You might also want to report it if it gets really bad. If you both are under age let your parents know too cause they might let her stay with you and help her get away from that.I'm so sorry for her I'll keep her in my prayers.
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Old 12-11-2008, 05:15 AM
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omg..... u know im not an expert with these stuff but u should probably tell a school counselor or principal about this. it should stop as soon as possible b4 r friend even starts THINKING of soemthing harmful....ok really really gd luck

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