Anyone have a best friend who loves advice but wont take it?

shamanfaredhead · #1 (**permalink**) 12-09-2008, 12:33 PM

ok so my best best friends. loves asking me for advice. so she asked me if she should go out with this guy who i personally know is a player. i told he not to and i don't wanna tell her not to go out with him. but I don't know how to tell her that if she does go out with him i wont help her anymore because if she asks me for advice and doesn't even take it there is no point in her needing to ask me for help.Any advice on what to do ? like how to tell her

Top Gun!! · #2 (**permalink**) 12-09-2008, 02:25 PM

Your friend isn't really interested in your advice, she is more interested in telling you about her life. Next time she appears to be asking for your advice tell her that only she can make these types of decisions and you will support her choices as best as you can. Problem solved.

Tahira S · #3 (**permalink**) 12-09-2008, 04:45 PM

OMG, yes! I have it is sooo annoying. It is like they come to you and say, well i wonder this this and that, but when it comes down to it, they don't take it! LOL, I advise not to give advice or say well it doesnt matter what i say, you are just going to do the opposite anyways!