I need friend advice. You, see, it all started when i was IMing her.?

PrettyKitty · #1 (**permalink**) 12-19-2008, 07:51 PM

I told my friend that this guy told me and some other people she liked a guy. So, I asked my friend if she did. She denied it. I believed her, but she was still angry at the guy for telling ppl about her liking someone (especially since it wasn't true). So, she called him. I told her not to tell him I told her. So, yeah, she called, and then she IMed saying that the boy said I was lying. Not only did she probably tell him I told her, but she didn't believe me! And she started saying things like,"YOU LIED TO ME!!!!!"and"HE SAID YOUR LYING!"And please believe me when I say that I DID NOT LIE TO HER. She just believed him because they've been friends for a longer time, I guess. But still, accusing me of lying? And you know, this isn't the first time she's rude to me...in fact, she's rude to me AND another girl who is my friend. I'm sorry, but I really need advice here, people! I already signed off my IM since she said I was lying and all. What am i supposed to do tomorrow? Help, plz?!

Typergirlie · #2 (**permalink**) 12-20-2008, 11:36 PM

all that was stupidim taking my points and leaving

alternative.punk · #3 (**permalink**) 12-21-2008, 02:10 PM

ignor her she must not be worth the friendship

jim · #4 (**permalink**) 12-25-2008, 12:00 AM

Dear drama queen,This is why if you like someone, you get your nerve up, walk up to them, and talk to them!!!!! Stop letting your life become all tangled up in your shallow friends...PS Thanks for the 2 pts.

chriisyxlovesxyou · #5 (**permalink**) 01-07-2009, 02:58 PM

well ive been there b4 .. wat you can do is leave it alone since shesbeen mean b4&just let it pass .. or u can confront the boy but that prolly isnt a good thing to do .. you mite even need to get a school teacher in on it&just have them let u guys talk it out but be there just so nuthin gets outta handhope this helps

texanawesomeness · #6 (**permalink**) 05-21-2009, 01:30 PM

Okay, you have a few options here. 1)You can talk it out. Reinforce that you weren't lying and that the guy just doesn't want to be embarrassed or whatever. 2)You could just totally ignore her and wait for her to apologize to you or act like nothing happened or whatever she usually does in these situations. 3)You could also just bluntly tell her she's being rude. 4)Or you could take a dive and apologize for something you didn't do. I know, number 4 totally sucks but most of the time it works. I had a situation similar to this with a friend not too long ago and I chose option number 2. I ignored her for a day and then the next day she came up to me and started talking to me like nothing happened. We didn't talk it out until a few days later, but by then she had cooled off and was ready to actually listen to me. I don't know if this was helpful or not, but good luck!