Need advice for my friend!?

Mel · #1 (**permalink**) 12-19-2008, 08:47 PM

My younger friend is being bullied she taold her friend about it so her friend wrote a note saying mean things about the bullie and put it in the bulllies desk. she signs it blanks friend (with my friends name in da blank)the bullie found it and showed everyone the note. now every one thinks my friend wrote the note even her best friend! I always give my friend advice but i need help with this one! so please help my friend and i r counting on yall!she has been tring to tell them she did not write it they will not listen. she also does not want to tell them that it was her friend who wrote it cause she does not have a lot of friends and she thinks if she says that it was here friend her friend will be angrey with her.

Newtooocala · #2 (**permalink**) 12-23-2008, 04:01 PM

There is nothing you can do to change the past. BUT the girl that actually wrote that note is NOT her friend tell her to run not walk away from her. Not even as a"joke"was that funny.

AngelVirgo9206 · #3 (**permalink**) 12-23-2008, 06:10 PM

MelGet the teachers involved show them the note and no one can bully anymore that is called harassment no matter what the age is so get the teachers and your parents and get someone to leave your friend alone

rebonelerat2 · #4 (**permalink**) 12-23-2008, 08:30 PM

Dont give the bulies the satisfaction they need. Try&encourage your friend to ignore them in every way possible. Bullies are attention seekers. They want to prove a point. Tel your friend to numb herself from their stupid comments&pretend as if they dont exist.

135sweet · #5 (**permalink**) 12-24-2008, 12:59 AM

Let her know that she has to defend herself. she didn't write the note and if she states that then hopefully everything will be okay.

Angry Insightful Black · #6 (**permalink**) 01-04-2009, 01:33 AM

tell the truth and move on.

imanigdwne · #7 (**permalink**) 05-15-2009, 10:12 PM

what I think you should do is tell your friend to tell his/her teacher.his/her teacher might help and put the bullier in/orexpulsion.or maybe put them in detention

Miranda · #8 (**permalink**) 05-16-2009, 07:36 AM

The only way to defuse a bully is to confront them directly - even if she is afraid to she should act like she's not - she should tell her that she didn't write the note and she doesn't want to be bothered anymore about it or anything else. It's the people that don't say anything that are picked on over&over again and they become easy targets because bullies know they won't say anything. Tell your friend not to be an easy target.