Friend Advice much needed!?

Dancer · #1 (**permalink**) 12-19-2008, 11:41 PM

I have this friend, we are always getting into fights and they are over the stupidest things! And she blames me for everything!! I just don't know who is being more immature me or her! She throws a fit when i want to sit in the front seat of the car, and then won't get into the car! She refuses to get into the car almost anytime that i sit up front! I need major advice!!!!

Sunshine · #2 (**permalink**) 12-20-2008, 10:34 PM

you need to tell her how immature she is being!!

fatherpose · #3 (**permalink**) 12-26-2008, 06:04 PM

well the car issue...she sounds pathetic there 100%,but I sense it goes deeper than this and you didn't mention more. I think you need to really really figure out why you argue and when you know then ask yourself can we work it out.Go from there.Good friends should not argue alot and if they do something is wrong and consider another thing also.Did you possibly grow up more or faster than your friend? That happens alot when 1 friend matures and 1 does not.Hope this input helps a little.Take care ok...

Missy · #4 (**permalink**) 05-16-2009, 08:28 PM

why dont you let her have things you know she wants.I think she feels you're getting better things than she does and she doesnt feel happy about it.Instead of dragging things with her,relax and give her a lil space.When she see's you're not in for those stuff she'll calm down and flow well with you.Apart from that it might be that she's angry with you over something and she cant talk to you about it.Why don t you jokingly ask her whats wrong.I hope it helps.Cheer babe.