friend advice plz help, ?

Bianca K · #1 (**permalink**) 12-21-2008, 08:28 AM

Plzz help i need advice.?im 15 and i dont have many friends and the ones i do have dont treat me like a friend.i want to find new friends but no one wants to hang out with me at schooli have changed myself to fit in with others that didnt work i now be myself and that dosnt work either im very nice and i dont no what else to dodose anyone have some advice i really need it thanks?also how do i get people to look up to me and adore me insted of every one thinking i look up to them and then they think there better then me?thanks

ellen · #2 (**permalink**) 12-28-2008, 01:23 PM

try to be as confident as possible, you'll stand out more, do something crazy! i have the same problem.

elliefabulous · #3 (**permalink**) 12-28-2008, 10:16 PM

sweetie, im 15 i get wat your going through. thing here is, dont ever change who you are to"fit in". when you are yourself, the right group of people will see that you are comfortable with yourself, and there is your group of friends. and when you act yourself, and have confidence in what you d, that is when people start to look up to you an adore you. and as for your acts, make sure they will positively reflect you so that you can be a role model.

hope i helped

AznBabe · #4 (**permalink**) 01-12-2009, 06:00 AM

well i don't rly kno how u can make ppl likes u....but i think da reason dat once u changed urself nd ppl still don't wanna hang out w/ u cuz of wuts da 1st impression they saw u with..u kno how ppl judge ppl wen they jst look at them....da only thing i can tell u is dat...jst b urself nd social!!hope dat helps

Sarah Elizabeth · #5 (**permalink**) 05-16-2009, 12:21 AM

I dealt with the same thing when i went to school, and then i realized these kids are losers and i'm to good for them. i didn't get along with anybody, we had nothing in common, i thought for myself, while everybody was following each other. so i left school, I home school now, and am graduating a year early in march, and things are so much better for me now, i'm so so happy. Home school is not for everyone. i'm blessed to have an amazing family, and to have god in my life, so that's makes a big difference. Think about homeschooling, it might work out for you.