How do you help a friend with depression?

Alaina · #1 (**permalink**) 12-22-2008, 12:45 AM

I am 14. My friend gets very depressed. She was never diagnosed with depression, but she gets very depressed at least once or twice a week. Im not sure if she is really depressed or if she just wants attention. When she gets depressed, I try to be very positive and optimistic as I can around her. I try getting her to laugh by telling her funny jokes, but it doesn't seem to work. Does anyone know how to help a friend with depression?

petrof_skinsky · #2 (**permalink**) 12-24-2008, 04:26 AM

Instead of trying to cheer her up, just let her know that she can talk to you about what's making her so sad. And if she does, then be a really good listener.

Catie P · #3 (**permalink**) 01-02-2009, 07:51 PM

Stay with her give her something to talk about and keep her away from pills and knives please. that is if you value her life

irina p · #4 (**permalink**) 02-24-2009, 06:50 PM

Simpel:be there for your friend and show that you care!