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This is a long explanation so please read and I really need thorough advice about what to do.I had two best friends. At one time I was close with both of them so much. Now I'm really not friends with either one of them. They don't call me, email me, or anything. When I reach out to them they don't pick up the phone or write back or they act like its weird I called them or wrote them. Its almost like they think they are better than me now. Feels like I am being avoided and I feel very rejected. It makes me wonder If I did something wrong or said something. I am a major people pleaser and its hard for me not to kiss up to people who are ignoring me or seem mad at me. I hardly have any friends as it is and it feels like slower and slower I'm losing the ones I have. One just invited me to her birthday party when this entire year she hasn't even contacted me but one time. I know she isn't that busy where she can't pick up the phone and call me. The other one just randomly deletes me off her myspace, won't accept my friend request, ignores me in person, and denies doing any of those things when I confronted her at church. She put on a nice act and then after that went back to her ways. I called her last night and she picked up saying your breaking up and put her dad on the phone and he said she wasn't their. It shows how much she thinks I'm stupid which I'm not. Its almost like my two friends want me to reach out to them because it shows that its hurting me. I feel pathetic for trying to get a hold of them and stuff when I should be moving on. I really don't know what to do. I've been upset this past whole month and I'm sick of feeling neglected, rejected, used, disappointed, misjudged, and bummed about friends who don't even want to speak to me. Please tell me what I should do.
Does she go to your school? If so tell her how you feel!! and ask her why is she not talking to you.. If not goes to your school.. try talking to thier parents and thier parents might talk to them about it.. If they dont reply or something.. make new friends!! theres plenty of gorgeous friends out in this real and big world!!Hope this Helps!xxx
Hey there,I know how it's feel..The things that you should do is to move on..Try to find a new friend that really care for you , it might take sometimes..It helps, but you will absolutely miss your best friend...Friends comes and go..Good luck!