I need some"friend"advice help please!?

{[I'm Not Okay]} · #1 (**permalink**) 12-25-2008, 02:44 PM

Im desperate for help! So, my friend who I thought was my friend, or at least she used to be, made friends with this one girl. So I thought, you know, its no big deal we're still friends and stuff. Well a couple weeks later, she only talks to her and is purpously trying to make me jealous(i KNOW shes trying to make me jealous because my other friend told me she is) it was so incredibly obvious that i already knew that though. So anyway, she started ignoring me to the point where she still hasnt talked to me for weeks now. I thought I made her mad for some reason, so I asked her if I had done anything to make her mad and she said no, thats it just plain"NO". The next day, i asked my friend who is also close to her if anything was up. She said that my"friend"and her new best friend were talking about me behind my back(she was talking to them whle they were talking about me, but she obviously didnt encourage them because shes way to nice for that). And it was really, REALLY mean. I am now extremely mad at my so called"friend."The comments she said about me hurt me really bad, any advice on what to do???

Smoking in the Boys Room · #2 (**permalink**) 12-27-2008, 11:12 PM

she wants to see you lose your cool so don't give her the satisfaction of getting back at her. be the mature one and walk away. karma is gonna come back and bite her in the butt

tokioHhottie15 · #3 (**permalink**) 12-30-2008, 03:26 AM

punch that betch in the face!!!!

scena · #4 (**permalink**) 01-03-2009, 12:05 AM

u really shouldnt keep hanging out with her, even when u get new friends a true friend wouldnt talk about u like that. dont get all mad or shel just like seeing u lose ur cool. just try to avoid her and hang out with other ppl

Maddy♥Tokio Hotel♥ · #5 (**permalink**) 01-07-2009, 10:12 PM

Either ignore her.... or confront her.You need to make it clear to her that her new friend is not her only friend and that you don't talk about her behind her back so she shouldn't be talking about you behind your back, especialy seeing as you trusted her!!! Also if she gives you short answers say you want an explanation and you are not going to accept meaningless, uninformative, short answers!!Good luck with your friend and i hope it works out fine, but if not it's not the end of the world and you have other awesome friends..

a_mbar1995 · #6 (**permalink**) 01-10-2009, 07:40 AM

I know what you mean. I had the same problem, a real friend wouldnt do that to you...